How many time do u get rejected by a girl !

killeraargh · tohoshinki fangirl Joined: Mar 08, 2005 Posts: 4317

wait....xenon.....aren't you a girl?

lol, as for me, I haven't ever been rejected....

mainly because I haven't asked anyone out yet...lol

xenon10 · Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 8:41 pm Post subject:

am i a girl or am i not a boy? get it? hahaha

okay2x...i'm a girl. and that's my point. why would they reject me when i don't swing that way? Rolling Eyes

but i once rejected a girl cuz she really wants me to go and ride in her car and go to school with her. yuck! i dont like you, you know. she thinks i'm her best friend. *shudders* she's got to b kidding, so i rejected her. hehehe*grin*

knightrider · Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 8:49 pm Post subject:

none at all so far

joekool · Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2006 5:08 am Post subject:

well being rejected does make one wanna try harder

MiME · Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 1:20 am Post subject:

You could say ive never been rejected...i think, i mean, once there was this girl that i liked who later i got to know didnt like me(at the time i didnt really know), but i never confessed to her anyway so i wasnt rejected...

so far ive had 3 and a half (one weird relationship thats not little enough to ignore, but not big enough to actually count, its actually waaaaaaaaay more complex than "big" or "little" though, but just so you get it) girlfriends, in my 4-almost-5 years of girl experiences.
you could say im good with girls but i dont think so...i get that a lot from my girl-friends (meaning my friends who happen to be girls not girlfriends as in "significant other"), i just think im nice and good looking Wink

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i dont actually confess anyway. i try to let things develop naturally, after im positive i have a chance, i go and do something about it. so i guess im just cheating by saying ive never been rejected. ive rejected a couple of times though; once a girl who i thought i liked but then found out i didnt so i stopped myself of going any further(so that i wont end up hurting her), but sadly she already liked me by that time and i think i hurt her, the other one was this girl at school who liked me but i just didnt, i mean she was cute and all but i didnt even know her...i think i knew a friend of her or something, had she gotten to know me first maybe i would have said yes, she wasnt ugly or anything, besides i was already into another girl at that time. there was another girl but thats a bit more difficult to explain, id rather not, unless you think its like really important (wich i dont), so ill just say she wasnt my type.

dont be too depressed over a rejection, its not like its the end of the world, i mean, it can be painful, it can be REALLY painful, but dont think that by not being rejected you are saved of that pain, what hurts is not rejection but love, and being lucky with girls is by no means being lucky at love. the worst pains are within a relationship, not outside, so try to think that it could have been waaaaaay worst had she accepted. and remember that liking someone is not the same as loving someone, but for a girl or boy to accept you, most of the time "liking" is more than enough. thats what you should be scared of, not rejection. ive known a couple of guys who have been rejected before by they now steady girlfriends, and i know from source that perseverance pays off, so just dont give up, easier said than done but its probably worth it. more than trying to get lucky with girls.

sorry for the long post!! Embarassed

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xenon10 · Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 7:13 am Post subject:

MiME> dont wory, that post wasnt a waste. in fact, it makes a great advice for guys. look guys, when you confess to a girl, and she rejects you, it's not such a big thing. what really hurts is when you've been steady then she later rejects you. cuz when you were together, she has gone to know you more. then she rejected you, meaning there was something about you that she didnt like. but when you were rejected when you just only confessed, then she was just judging you for either how you look, your backgrounds, your status, or maybe "rumors" going around about you.

and as they say "try and try until you die" Wink

as for your sig, my answer would be egg if it was in a restaurant, but chickens were the first ones created.

lilfairy · newbie! Joined: Jan 18, 2006 Posts: 12

3 times ? ... hmm not easy ... lolz

mirameami · newbie! Joined: Jan 15, 2006 Posts: 26 Location: lima

I get rejected by a girl a lot of times. But I am Happy! Very Happy

(i don't care, It's not important)

yesterdayz_rain · Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 6:22 pm Post subject:

many times by the same girl, but we're cool. so i always use stupid pick up lines arounds her. and she always sees me as joking around Wink

joekool · Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 1:53 am Post subject:

ChiNammer · Conscript Joined: Sep 06, 2005 Posts: 118

once...it was sad..i really liked her too!

xenon10 · Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 9:40 am Post subject:

ohayo · Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 7:37 pm Post subject:

xenon10 can you give the boys some tips/hints to express our feeling seems some of the boys is not good at expressing himself due to the digusting word SHY well for sometime i hope that the girls can actually be the one that confess instead of the guys...thou that happen only 20% out of 100%
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Soud · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Apr 14, 2005 Posts: 51

not even one.

pyrorecca · Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 9:21 pm Post subject:

If you're shy, use body language.

In fact, body language is a more effective means of communication compared to verbal language in my books.

MAintain eye contact. Use subtle facial expressions. Walk around like you own the place. Stand out from the crowd. Some people like myself naturally have an aura of self-assurance. It's a skill you can learn though.