How many time do u get rejected by a girl !

Avic7 · newbie! Joined: Jan 02, 2006 Posts: 41

I've been rejected a couple of times but i've also been accepted a couple of times. Girls like guys to be direct and ambitious. They like guys who has a sense of humour and isn't boring. And most of all they like guys who don't talk about themselves all the time and can listen when the girl talk. Of course if you have to talk about yourself, do not talk about how nothing is going right for u, don't talk about guns and don't feel sorry for yourself

joekool · Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 6:00 am Post subject:

xenon10 · Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 8:24 am Post subject:

ohayo> well, i can only give some tips to you by telling you the psyche of a girl. girls are born vain...yes, i sometimes feel that way, too. thats why you need to compliment her. if she had a new hairdo, or haircut, compliment her. but always avoid this line, "thats a lot better than before". just say "you look beautiful". dont make her feel insecure even when it was in the past. i also need to tell you about a girl's monthly period. its not their fault, its really painful. of course, she's easily irritated and you need to understand her for that. just be there when she needs you. which leads me to another important factor: you need to listen. when a girl has a problem, she doesnt need chocolates or gifts from you. all she needs is your presence and for you to listen. you see, when a girl talks, she thinks at the same time. she blurts out all her feelings that sometimes she can get a soultion/conclusion on her own. no need to interrupt her talk, unless she asks you a question. and women are born naggers, too. they nag, we nag, we cant help it.

does that help?

joekool>you got that right. show offs are jerks for me. btu bein too shy is also not an excuse for not being confident in courting the girl. girls like the men to lead, but not gloat about it.

pyrorecca · Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 10:02 am Post subject:

I don't mean show-off. I mean like having confidence in the way you present yourself.

xaturas · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Dec 26, 2005 Posts: 54

I didnt confess so i wasnt reject hehehe.
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pyrorecca · Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 10:20 am Post subject:

Remarkable how alike we are. Exactly. Never confess. That's the way to do it. Confessing is over rated.

Bowser · Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 10:23 am Post subject:

By confess you guys dont mean love letters like in those mangas?.....because then you shouldnt be surprised to get rejected....love letters is like stalking.....its freaky....

..maybe I should use that method....

pyrorecca · Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 10:29 am Post subject:

Hey........some girls like to be stalked..... Good luck finding one.

Freaky isn't so bad. At least the girl will know you actually exist.

Bowser · Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 10:31 am Post subject:

pyrorecca · Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 10:38 am Post subject:

Thats a good idea.....

Writing in blood will drive vampires like sayo madly in love with you!!

0ni- · Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 6:42 pm Post subject:

ive never asked any girl out...stuff with girls just happens naturally. hooking up etc...i can pretty much tell if a girl likes me right away. dont have to ask, if there s chemistry just chat with her until the right moment clicks Wink

. im no expert or anything but i do okay with the ladies.
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vietfan26 · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Jan 08, 2006 Posts: 51

i have to say tat confessin is kinda fun.....even if u get rejected
sayin tat i got rejected about 2-3 times now...same girl hahahah
but yea now its all gravy i got me a gurl which i love

joekool · Posted: Sun Jan 22, 2006 10:34 am Post subject:

Virus · Posted: Sun Jan 22, 2006 2:46 pm Post subject:

I've been rejected twice. Once in 7th grade, cuz I was completely unpopular in my grade. Second time, after I confessed, I had no idea of how to approach that girl, considering the fact that she was japanese and hardly spoke any english, while I didn't knew any japanese at that moment, but fluently spoke english. So, a week after my confession, she told me she doesn't like me anymore. It was sad and painful, but I quite knew that this sort of a relationship will not lead me anywhere.

Assi · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Jul 03, 2004 Posts: 53

I've never in my life confess, so i haven't been rejected by anyone yet Razz

But i wish i could confess, but got no guts.

After watching Suzuka and reading Parfait Tic, i'm to scared to confess now. It's loads of fun beeing with the one you like, but if you confess and get rejected, you migth lose all those fun stuff you normaly do :'( I hate confessing. I think that guys should have been born with a mind reading ability so it would be easyer for us Smile

Don't need to get rejected so many times. Normaly it's the guys that confess so that's why we should have something like this to make our days easyer. ^^