Got tips on how to confess to a girls? post em here!

Itachi-kun · Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 9:50 pm Post subject:

Kokuhakus should be from the heart. There is no one prefect way to do them. My advice is just let your feelings take over and put yourself out there. My only other suggestion would be to just let her give you some signals unless you suck at interpreting, in which case you want to just go right out and say it at a lace she loves. My favorite kokuhaku spot would be the beach. Summer memories and perfect mist surrounding you two, one of the most romantic sites for kokuhakus. (kokuhaku=confession if you didn't know.)
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blackie · Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 10:14 am Post subject:

erk..dun hv any idea right now..

VuDynasty · Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 11:13 pm Post subject:

If you know her for a bit, then just ask her to talk and say so, or thats what i did dunno if it'll work for you. If you don't realy know her, i guess first talk to the girl a conversation and ask her out for maybe a movie or something, then i guess confess, i'm not so sure about that, but who really is.

DRKRONNIN · Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 9:54 am Post subject:

If you really want to get with a girl do these things.

1. Be honest with yourself and her

2. Try to become her friend first before starting a serious relationship, If its meant to be Itll happen sooner or later. And if your friends beforehand when you have an arguement (Something you will have regardless of how great a match you two are your only human lol) youll be able to handle it a lot better and get over it sooner.

3. Gain her confidence and trust by being as open and honest as possible, Dont try to be "Joe Cool" girls really dont like that kinda thing all the women ive talked to in the past and even now (belive me about 90% of my friends are women who im pretty sure a lot of you would die to date lol) say that confidence is sexy in a guy..

4. Be yourself when your alone and around others, a lot of guys have this problem they are one way when they are alone with a girl and another when they are with their friends, DONT DO THAT!!! If a girl senses that your trying to be someone else for your friends than she's going to start to lose respect for you.

5. Finally after youve completed all the aforementioned steps (A process that could take weeks, months, year etc) confess to her after giving her a nice gesture maybe a small gift or even better something youve created like a poem or a painting (for all you creative types out there).

If you guys follow these seemingly simple steps youd have luck with a girl (Assuming that you share a mutaual interest in each other)

So good luck and P.S if you need help with a poem P.M me Im pretty nice with the verbals lol..

rag_gurl · Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 12:10 pm Post subject:

if you really like a girl you should tell her, but not go up infront of her and tell her but give her hints that you do like her. playfullness is one hint, making her smile and laugh, occasional touch on the shoulder or arm, yes that is good, but never write cards or letters to her cuz that's kinda creepy, well for me it's creepy, it's a turn off for me. no stalking! absolutly no stalking! i would run away and hide for a week if someone stalked me. so i hope these tips helps someone out.

sakuraglory · Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 1:00 pm Post subject:

hmm..mostly guys are afraid to confess, they are afraid cuz maybe the girl dumped him. that's why its hard to confess for them, that just a super coward act!!..girls dnt like coward, guys this a advice if u like a girl u should tell her that u like her or maybe u should be friends with her..if dnt u might regret that in ur whole life...
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injiyuu · Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 12:40 am Post subject:

but personally id rather stay friends with agirl i liked then to be more than a friend for one day or so...

ethylenediamine · Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 1:11 am Post subject:

Here is a good way to tell a girl you like her: simultaneously do a chin-up on a monkey bar while you confess. I am sure you will get lots of girls to fall for you then. It worked for Manaka. I have never tried this though.

Bowser · Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 3:47 pm Post subject:

You know what's good? begging!!

Girls love nothing more than to see a grown man cry and crawl on the floor!!

...............well at least I think it works........

Reis_Winds · Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 3:55 pm Post subject:

It's good to start off as friends, to be humourous and playful.

But don't try confessing to a girl if she's your best friend. Usually... that ruins the relationship between you and her. It happened to me once before. The relationship only lasted a week before everything felt awkward and wrong. -__-;

We didn't speak to each other for a year.

Well, if you're really close to them, try holding their hands if you're hanging out and walking. Try to play it off as a joke, that'll really make her blush.

Oh, and one more word of advice, don't joke around with her feelings TOO much. Their'll be a time when they won't know if you're joking about how you feel or if you're serious.

G'luck.
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Inki · newbie! Joined: May 03, 2005 Posts: 13

Well, from my experiances with some guys:
- Try to confess in person, or at least if it's on paper try to ask directly, and I mean a full letter or something. Not just a note. Don't make her have to guess what you're trying to say because she won't, it would be too akward for you and she might get irritated afterwards because you can't bring yourself to even say it. Maybe the phone would be an okay idea also, it might show that you're sensative, but don't avoid her or anything the next day. Well, just don't confess over the internet. -_-
- Don't tell her you like her on the second day you've talked to her EVER. Especially if you've never met or seen eachother. She might get all self-concious and have no idea why you would like her.

Ah, I only came up with two things. Oh well, there was some detail at least. >.<

Versace · newbie! Joined: Jan 03, 2006 Posts: 32

if u wanna ask the chicks friend to scope out ahead of u & drop hints.. u still gotta goddamn confess..=_=++

was sucky for me... ex told my friend that he liked me.. and he got an answer from my bestie.. & the best line he could come up with was

him: so... she told u?
me: Rolling Eyes

yes
me:

*thinks: now that was dissapointing*

soo if ur gonna confess.. do it properly..=_=++

Steff · Posted: Sun Jan 22, 2006 9:48 am Post subject:

Forget to confess just remember to undress Cool

joekool · Posted: Sun Jan 22, 2006 10:28 am Post subject:

well some of your ideas are great! thanks! but i guess one has know her for quite a while and well too...

Assi · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Jul 03, 2004 Posts: 53

A good tip: Confess to the person on a good day, not one of those days when the person is weak/down or a normal day. Confess to the person on a day the person is very happy. Then the person migth take it as a good thing. If not, you've made the persons day a bit weird and it should then become a normal day Razz

And another thing. Before confessing to the person. Be sure that the person knows you and don't hate you ^^