Got tips on how to confess to a girls? post em here!

kaw12 · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Apr 26, 2005 Posts: 78

I agree on the suggestions...its better to become friends first^^
hmm..same thing happened to me...we became good friends first and after a while when we became close i confessed on a bus ride after having gone xmas shopping with her and dinner.she was feeling sleepy and laid her head on my shoulder and i whispered that i love her onto her ear...GOD it was very nerve wracking....good thing she felt the same...or else......dum dum dum duuuummmm....

bahngoomon · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Jul 02, 2005 Posts: 52

this is just for a sad girl to go "aww!!"...okay first ...if you see a sad girl thats down in the dumps go up to her and say
1. "hey, i have something for you"
- look through your pockets and pretend to look for something and look like you're confused or something like "where did it go!?"

2. the girl will most likely say..."what are you looking for??"

3. thats when you stop and say.."hmm...i can't seem to find it....but im looking for you're smile.."

4. the girl will mostly smile and laugh and then you say "OH there it is!!"

...yea...prttty smooth

snooze111 · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Nov 16, 2005 Posts: 51

u can try to write a letter or say it through the phone
i dont think notes and phone message would help u alot unless the girl u are after really got hot for u

i dont like the idea of being friends first .

auc · Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 8:14 am Post subject: eheh

well i think be ur self and let her know what your

feelings for her.... but for sure you must be her friend

first before stepping in a new level of courting a girL..

there`s no harm trying 2 confess the one you love

Xristyan · Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 8:20 am Post subject:

confessing to girls?? not much tips on that.. there are the cheesy tips like the letter or hidden gift... and some more straight forward like talking to them in person... the thing is if you know the girl or not.. if you are like close with the girl to begin with then the talking straight would suffice.. if the girl has no idea who you are you might have to do a little more stuff... like the letters and gifts to know who you are.. but don't over do the gift and letters so as not to be labeled a stalker...
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rmv89 · newbie! Joined: Jan 30, 2006 Posts: 29

I definitely wouldn't advise the whole letter thing. That got me into a lot of trouble because some jerk decided to send a letter addressed from me to some really snobby girl and I got called stalker for the rest of the year when I have yet to find out where she lives. But it's stupid stuff like that that happens to me all the time because I just seem to be the easiest target in the school.

But I would advise getting to know the person first and once you're close enough to her, pull her aside and just ask her, it's easier to do that stuff when you don't have a erd of her friends hanging around staring at you like you're some insignificant being and losing your confidence.

pyrorecca · Posted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 1:56 am Post subject:

Really? I skip the whole friends part completely. I'm a horrible friend. IF girls wanna talk to me about their feelings (they never do), I would just stare at them. I laugh whenever girls get pissed at me etc etc. In other words, depending on your personality, becoming friends first is not exactly a good idea for CERTAIN individuals such as myself.
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Hermann · newbie! Joined: Jan 16, 2006 Posts: 29

Whatever you do don't do it if you happen to meet her out on a club and you're drunk and start to confess and then forget what you're talking about and then suddenly get so nervous you're about to throw up. Trust me, that's not a good way.
So my tip is to be sober and do it in a place where there's absolutely no distractions.

ChiNammer · Conscript Joined: Sep 06, 2005 Posts: 118

You should send her a written message, like a letter or text msg, just to meet up with her somewhere first so you guys can be alone. Trust me, you don't need the added pressure of other people being there. Just tell her the truth..it couldn't hurt..much Rolling Eyes

Xristyan · Posted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 8:32 pm Post subject:

IF you are gutsy then maybe you can pull a Manaka and do a pull-up confession.. hahaha.. but really that is a bad idea... unless the girl already likes you... like nishino.. Very Happy

oh heck, being able to know the girl helps a lot... being acquaintance or even a friend of hers will give you good leverage... easier to talk to her and to get her alone...
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