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Joined: Sep 08, 2005 Posts: 3819 Location: Within your darkest nightmares, and your deepest desires
Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 2:21 am Post subject:
I was hoping that you would read it sometime tonight Alexiel. Love is as wonderful as I described it to be for me. I hope that you find it as well.
I read this thread entirely before I posted mine, and out of all of them yours were the most intriguing. I wanted to ask you, and you dont have to answer if you dont want to. Is there any particular reason why you have not chosen to seek a partner in life? If you have alread answered this, then forgive my oversight of it.
I see you enjoyed Kannaduki no Miko as much as I did. Never had I seen an anime before this that touched me so profoundly. I have never seen a love so pure and heartwarming as the one between Himeko and Chikane before. I have written a love story of the same nature, but it is still not completed, like lots of the mangas and stories and books that I start. _________________ Miku Miku!!
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Last edited by TrueAncestor on Sun Dec 11, 2005 4:07 am; edited 1 time in total
Just wondering ~ are you a kid like most of us?
I have never met someone who's married and reads manga! Althought I probably will still read it when I get married.
Joined: Sep 01, 2005 Posts: 298 Location: Tokyo, Japan
Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 9:20 am Post subject:
TrueAncestor wrote:
Wow there are extremely deep thinkers among us. I had no idea.
To answer the post, yes, I do have a girlfriend, and I am in love with her. And yes, for those who dont know me, I am also a girl, which throws the convential idea of what love is out the window into the fires of hell, figuratively speaking of course. Since we are trying to define what love is (which is impossible) I am going to share my own life and personal experiences on what my perception of love is. Not sure if anyone will listen to it, but here it is anyways.
Before I met my girlfriend, I was in a relatively good relationship with my current best friend, who is a guy, until he did something to me that I would rather not talk about.... then I left him, and he left to another city. Then I thought I loved him, but it turns out I did not know what love was at the time. Being 17 and in love pretty much means that you are headed to heartbreak, especially if you are a girl.
Later my girlfriend confessed to me, which came at a complete surprise because I had no clue that she really like me in that way, and I was equally surprised that I liked her in that way as well. I didnt even realize it until that moment. The thought had crossed my mind a few times, but I dismissed it as a fleeting thought of fancy. But it came back to me,and it felt inexplicably like I had felt with my old boyfriend, but even better. I felt, happy I guess. I dont know how else to put it. It was sheer joy at the revelation of her feelings, but it was something more. I didnt know what it was then, but now that I feel it every time I see her, I know what it is. Its love.
I had known her for years and had grown to love her. Of course lots of people thrown that word around so much that it has lost some of its true meaning, but its what I felt. At first it was like a love that you have for a close friend, but it became more right under my nose. She had been there for me the moment that tragedy happened. She was the first one to comfort me whenever I was sad, or lonely, or whatever. Love is like that, at least in my life. I never knew it was there until it was staring me right in face. Its subtle, but it keeps growing until in consumes you body and soul.
That is what I feel for her now. Whenever I see her, my heart jumps, beats faster, I even still get goosebumps when I see her. That is typically reserved for teenagers and their crushes. When she touches me, Im hot and cold, Im so happy when she is home with me, when she gets home and sleeps next to me. I wonder about her all day. I do wonder if she is okay, if she has eaten, if she has gas in the car, about everything. Because when you are truly, truly in love, you devote you entire existence to the happiness of that person.
I have done this. I used to be pretty selfish person before my girlfriend came along and I fell in love. Now my life is centered around her in every way. I cook for both of us, I buy everything for two, if I really want something but I know she has her eyes set on something else, I will get what she wants. As long as she is happy, I am happy.
Dont mistake me for one of those people who people who do it merely for their own self satisfaction or for some personal gain. I dont do it because it makes me happy. To be honest, sometimes the things I do for her dont make me happy at all, but its her reaction to it that makes me happy. As cliche as all this sounds, its comepletely true.
Its not all happy happy all the time though. Another sign that you may be in love is that you feel tremendous amounts of pain as well. If it was not love, then you would not work at it right? ALmost my entire family has seperated from me because of my love for her. My mother still talks to me, but she believes that I am going to hell. Well I will tell you what I tell her every time she says that to me. I tell her, "If my love for her is going to send me to hell, then I will gladly goto the deepest, darkest part of hell for her." I would die for her. Although I would hate leaving her, if she decided to leave me or if she found somebody else, I wouldnt try to stop her. If she is happier with somebody else, then that is all that matters.
These are my personal views and experiences with love, believe them or not. As I right them it seems a little crazy to me actually, but its all true, from the bottom of my heart.
wow thats really amazing true ancestor, actually i felt that the same feeling in my boyfriends..i understand how u felt with ur girlfriend, though ur both girls..its kinda "yokunai" in the sight of public..but they dont know really the truth about it. the thing is ur in love..i really admire u ^^
ur kinda chikane like..in kannaduki no miko hehe i really like that anime too, but i felt sory for oogami hehe..poor him _________________ [img:450:200:a60d293270]http://www.anime-source.com/upload/uploadFiles/yuren.jpg[/img:a60d293270]
Joined: Oct 11, 2005 Posts: 578 Location: Somewhere taking responsibility
Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 3:23 pm Post subject:
TrueAncestor wrote:
I was hoping that you would read it sometime tonight Alexiel. Love is as wonderful as I described it to be for me. I hope that you find it as well.
It certainly was a pleasure to be able to catch it before it was pushed back by other posts. In time, I believe I may.
TrueAncestor wrote:
I read this thread entirely before I posted mine, and out of all of them yours were the most intriguing. I wanted to ask you, and you dont have to answer if you dont want to. Is there any particular reason why you have not chosen to seek a partner in life? If you have alread answered this, then forgive my oversight of it.
Thank you for your compliment. It really was a spilling over of my true feelings on the matter, so I am thankful that you found my posts to be intriguing. As for me not having chosen a partner...well...the truth is, though I have technically been in a two relationships before - I should mention that both of them lasted no longer than 2 weeks put together - I refuse to acknowledge them, as I was taken in, given false hopes, and then thrown away by a person I cared for. The reason why I do not have one now, is simply because no one has seen me as a prospective partner. I have had a few crushes, but no one I would want to call my partner.
I suppose I wished to cry because I was so profoundly touched by your love; a love I hope to someday be returned, as many of your actions of affection would mirror my own.
Simply put, I have sought, but I have not been found to be in wanting. I am always too good of a friend, or unable to return the proper affections to someone whom I don't care for deeply. I will say that there is a woman in my life right now that I feel a deep connection with, and has the same care and insight into my world as I do for hers. Unfortunately, our winter meeting has been hindered by an unexpected incident. Yes, I met her by chance, online, but the way in which our fates became intertwined by another string of fate in my life being severed, is only something that would be seen in a fictional scenario. I can only hope that we have as wonderful of a time in person as we do on the phone and chatting.
TrueAncestor wrote:
I see you enjoyed Kannaduki no Miko as much as I did. Never had I seen an anime before this that touched me so profoundly. I have never seen a love so pure and heartwarming as the one between Himeko and Chikane before. I have written a love story of the same nature, but it is still not completed, like lots of the mangas and stories and books that I start.
Yes. I was certainly inspired and touched by that anime to a great degree. Oh, and don't worry. I haven't nearly completed my story yet either. It is up on the net though. I doubt anyone has happened upon it, as it is in a blog, but I also am one to have many unfinished works. _________________ [IMG:240:120:b0be737b07]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v195/Alexiel-sama/misuzudies.gif[/img:b0be737b07]
Spoiler: Misuzu dies.
Joined: Sep 19, 2005 Posts: 268 Location: Between Heaven and Hell in a place called Earth
Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2006 6:39 pm Post subject:
I have a girlfriend. We've been together for eight months now and I'm very happy with my relationship. Hope all single guys/girls out there will find someone they really love. _________________ Reality is wrong.
Dreams are for real.
Make your own path according to your dreams.
no i don't have any girlfriend and kinda like still searching
well have or not now it is doesn't matter as i need the time to play, study and work so time for girlfriend is kinda like almost none
and to get girlfriend i need money so i need work
but i also need to entertain myself so play is important too and i come to here to study so that should be my top priority
so almost no time for girlfriend(well like i myself not handsome i admit it)
anyway my experience in love is not so good
the first one i feel that it is one hand love or maybe just regular liking(still young and stupid)
another one i believe is the same well it is not i confess to her guess that is my bad habid (difficult to express my feeling)
well learning to those experience, i believe i need to express more and don't keep quite
Joined: Aug 20, 2005 Posts: 72 Location: far out...NZ...
Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:25 pm Post subject:
i dont have a boyfriend yet..
i just got no feelings for guys lolz!!!
i think i'll wait for someone...
guys r just friends to me...
not for relationship and lovers...
haha!!
i love being single its the most fun rest of my life...
single the best...but many pplz needs "Love"
for feelings/attentions and happy...
anywayz
to me love is a game...happy and sad!!!
actually im kinda alone by the way i got families,friends cousins whos always be here for me... _________________ Break the body, body will heal...
Break the soul, the body would die...
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i want a girlfriend, but sometimes afirde of da future and uncertanty of da relationship, i'm 17 by da way
