Do you have boyfrien/girlfriend?

Bloodmire · newbie! Joined: Dec 07, 2005 Posts: 32

Heh... I like how everyone responds with their thoughts and knowledge and all that great stuff about love and relationships. Its interesting. I will tell you the truth, I have been in many relationships, and you will find that most of them are nothing more than simply a moment in your life. Your first, of course, will have you believe that your in love and everything is perfect. Of course, chances are that things will not turn out well. I can't say that though, I am still friends with my first Girl Friend. I can't really explain love either. To me, its this little thing inside me that feels incomplete, and they complete it basically. Its hard to really tell you. Anyways... I have only truly been in love 3 times... two shattered my heart without distinction about anything that ment something to me. But this one is doing well. 4 months now... not as long as my other ones... but still a good time period. But you shouldn't worry. Your young, I am young... its life... you live, you learn, then you die. But don't worry, you will find someone.
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manwithnoname · Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 11:15 am Post subject:

i will be single all throughout my school life its kind of sad though
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Damia · Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 2:51 pm Post subject:

Was involved with a guy for about 10 months, my shortest EVEr longterm relationship btw. Was single for about um....a month maybe, then "got together"/ started dating my current beu and have been together with him for almost 5 months now...that I think about it...woa 5 months already??? He's the first one who hasn't cared to count month annies, and I couldn't be happier cause I'm sooo bad at remembering them. Happy with him aside from the fact that my fam kinda hates him....*shrugs* either I date some whom they like, and make them happy, or date someone I like and make myself happy.....can't have everything. Does anyone else here have that problem btw? Their fam not liking their significant other/bf/gf..? just curious.
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manga108 · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Sep 24, 2005 Posts: 58

well i have a gurl friend wen it was in june, we broked up...
... i actually still lyk her i love her nature she is sooo sweet wen she
smiles or mad. i can never stay mad at a gurl lyk dat

Yui · Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 11:44 pm Post subject:

me have a bf two years older than me, hes kinda violent at times but not towards me. he still has a gentle heart however, i like a guy like that
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rag_gurl · Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 12:53 am Post subject:

guys out there....i have a guy question that needs to be answered by guys...well what if a guy likes you and you know they do but suddenly they just started to ignore you...what does that mean....

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TrueAncestor · Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 1:30 am Post subject:

Wow there are extremely deep thinkers among us. I had no idea.

To answer the post, yes, I do have a girlfriend, and I am in love with her. And yes, for those who dont know me, I am also a girl, which throws the convential idea of what love is out the window into the fires of hell, figuratively speaking of course. Since we are trying to define what love is (which is impossible) I am going to share my own life and personal experiences on what my perception of love is. Not sure if anyone will listen to it, but here it is anyways.

Before I met my girlfriend, I was in a relatively good relationship with my current best friend, who is a guy, until he did something to me that I would rather not talk about.... then I left him, and he left to another city. Then I thought I loved him, but it turns out I did not know what love was at the time. Being 17 and in love pretty much means that you are headed to heartbreak, especially if you are a girl.

Later my girlfriend confessed to me, which came at a complete surprise because I had no clue that she really like me in that way, and I was equally surprised that I liked her in that way as well. I didnt even realize it until that moment. The thought had crossed my mind a few times, but I dismissed it as a fleeting thought of fancy. But it came back to me,and it felt inexplicably like I had felt with my old boyfriend, but even better. I felt, happy I guess. I dont know how else to put it. It was sheer joy at the revelation of her feelings, but it was something more. I didnt know what it was then, but now that I feel it every time I see her, I know what it is. Its love.

I had known her for years and had grown to love her. Of course lots of people thrown that word around so much that it has lost some of its true meaning, but its what I felt. At first it was like a love that you have for a close friend, but it became more right under my nose. She had been there for me the moment that tragedy happened. She was the first one to comfort me whenever I was sad, or lonely, or whatever. Love is like that, at least in my life. I never knew it was there until it was staring me right in face. Its subtle, but it keeps growing until in consumes you body and soul.

That is what I feel for her now. Whenever I see her, my heart jumps, beats faster, I even still get goosebumps when I see her. That is typically reserved for teenagers and their crushes. When she touches me, Im hot and cold, Im so happy when she is home with me, when she gets home and sleeps next to me. I wonder about her all day. I do wonder if she is okay, if she has eaten, if she has gas in the car, about everything. Because when you are truly, truly in love, you devote you entire existence to the happiness of that person.

I have done this. I used to be pretty selfish person before my girlfriend came along and I fell in love. Now my life is centered around her in every way. I cook for both of us, I buy everything for two, if I really want something but I know she has her eyes set on something else, I will get what she wants. As long as she is happy, I am happy.

Dont mistake me for one of those people who people who do it merely for their own self satisfaction or for some personal gain. I dont do it because it makes me happy. To be honest, sometimes the things I do for her dont make me happy at all, but its her reaction to it that makes me happy. As cliche as all this sounds, its comepletely true.

Its not all happy happy all the time though. Another sign that you may be in love is that you feel tremendous amounts of pain as well. If it was not love, then you would not work at it right? ALmost my entire family has seperated from me because of my love for her. My mother still talks to me, but she believes that I am going to hell. Well I will tell you what I tell her every time she says that to me. I tell her, "If my love for her is going to send me to hell, then I will gladly goto the deepest, darkest part of hell for her." I would die for her. Although I would hate leaving her, if she decided to leave me or if she found somebody else, I wouldnt try to stop her. If she is happier with somebody else, then that is all that matters.

These are my personal views and experiences with love, believe them or not. As I right them it seems a little crazy to me actually, but its all true, from the bottom of my heart.
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1ce · Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 1:41 am Post subject:

Beautiful, absolutely beautiful... The post I mean. I'm pretty sure many of us here respect your status and your beliefs. I believe that you'll be happy either road you take as it seems you have profound determination. Something that average people usually don't have. You also seem to understand that love is more than just a friendship. Many people may say that they also can, but they can't put it into words; you in particular are capable.

Alexiel · Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 1:48 am Post subject:

True Ancestor, thank you for being so heartfelt and honest about what your own "epiphany of love" was for you. I think deep in my heart I know what it was, but as I am right now, I can't explain what I felt when I read your words. Something in my heart broke...but it was because of how much joy I felt, and how one's own experience of love could be right under their nose. You took a chance on everything just to see if you were being honest with yourself, and you certainly have found something extraordinarily special, though so many people will disagree with you and me.

Maybe it's because I loved Kannaduki no Miko so much and have even begun to write my own love story surrounding two opposing girls...but I almost cried upon finishing your post. I wish I could have cried...just out of sheer happiness. If it were for a love as beautiful and tangible as what you described, I believe I could very well have the same outlook on the reprocussions of my impending death as you do.

Thank you for sharing.
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