why are childhood memories sad?

pok_ai_ne · Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 10:21 am Post subject: why are childhood memories sad?

why is that. why do you feel sad about it...

if you were with old man and never with kids your age... would you feel sad?

if you were by your self all your life... would you feel sad?

what if you stay one place that is all white... and with food to keep you alife would you feel sad?

why we feel sad about child hood memories, even though they are bad....
I miss my childhood times... i want to go back... i m crying about that now... I need to stop.....
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NiTeLiTe · Conscript Joined: Feb 11, 2003 Posts: 169 Location: USA

sounds like your having a hard time. i hope u dont mind if im blunt, but it seems like your lonely and afraid to grow up / old and you regret what has happened in the past. sorry if i offended you, but maybe start with something simplistic that you like to do. maybe restrain from thinking of the past and think about what you want for the future. if you have a dream, (mine is to start my own company) then maybe try to take a challenging step forward to your dream.

honesly im not trying to bash on you at all, i am just trying to give you encouragement and enlightenment.

again, sorry if i offended you from what i said earlier

hope you feel better soon.

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Bowser · Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 12:46 pm Post subject:

Sad child hood?? Very rare...depending on what age and stuff......My childhood envolved knives and blinde bunnies...twas sad......

hope ya get to feel better, trust me, depression: not a good thing!

Chear up and dont comit Seppuku !! Wink

whiteleaf · Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 1:05 pm Post subject:

Whenever I remember my childhood memories, I get sad too. I guess its because I realize that I will never look at the world as innocently as I did while I was a child, even tho not all my childhood memories are pleasent ones. The older I get, the more i realize stuff about the world, especially the bad things and things I wish I didn't know about. I hav no brothers or sisters or kids where I live, and I experience some moments where I feel like I have no one to turn to, and that I am completely alone. Being alone can be scary, but I realize that I face my very self when I am alone.

Don't get depressed. Its a terrible thing to feel. And don't ever commit suicide, because altho you may not realize it yet, you do have something to give to the world, no matter how small it may be. Take comfort in the flowers and trees and air and rocks. When i'm upset, I sit outside and listen to the birds singing, or the musical sound of a steam.It clears my mind- allows me to grasp my problem.

I hope you feel better. Dream of the future, not the past. Take life with an open heart
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the_waltz · Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 6:18 pm Post subject:

i'll admit my childhood did suck, but it wasn't, by definition, sad. i mean, whenever i think back about being a juvenile, my life then was pretty bad, but not to the point where i would bitch about it being bad, because, hey, that's life. though it sucked, that didn't make my present life horrible, because i'm enjoying a hell of a lot now than before

utreu · Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 8:05 pm Post subject:

Actually I dont get your idea, I barely remember my chilhood but it wasnt sad, the parts I recall are happier that now if you know what I mean, its like... when I was a kid I used to belive that life will get better and sadly, at least for me, its worse; but dont get me wrong probably my childhood were even worst than now. So get over it, its past... now its up to you if youre going to let your memeries haunt you.

Sorry if this sound random.. actually I dont have a clear idea, but I feel like post it, thats all.
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sakuraglory · Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 3:31 am Post subject:

just forget ur childhood past, if it is a sad memories..memories that gives u pain..if u live in the past or something that u cant forget or u cant leave or somthings haunts you..i cant focus in ur life right now, i meant you cant live properly. and besides its past, the important is what u have right now..
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Monsta_Mikal · Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 4:15 am Post subject:

i used to think about the past alot, but when i really think about it im kinda thankful
i mean if i hadnt of gone through all the things i did, i wouldnt be the person i am today, sure some things arent very pleasant but the past is the past we cant do anything about it but we can change our future

subzero · Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 4:51 am Post subject:

old time memories are good, there some of it great and some of it bad... as we grow up we mustn't cling to it... we must use it as an experience in life... to make us strong and be more independent...

we've had our good time and now we must live on with it... and treasure it in minds...

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rag_gurl · Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 1:07 am Post subject:

i had many dark memories as a child, such as when i was 4 i saw my older brother shoot a small yellow bird to death, and i can remember it's feathers stained in bright red blood. and me being all alone on the kitchen flood playing by myself as my older sisters talked smack about me......makes me wanna hate them....

VuDynasty · Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 9:02 am Post subject:

My childhood wasn't sad... but there have been parts just just sucked and of course parts that i felt i didnt belong. I was sortof a loner when i was a kid, but it didn't bother me until later on in my life when i made some close friends and made me realize what i had missed. But the saddest part was realizing how the world is.

Spender · Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 12:14 pm Post subject:

I've had a pretty lonely life, and done some stupid things. Part of it is that I have Tourettes Syndrome and a mild form of Autism, so I dont easily relate to others, and I dont interpret things the same way everyone else does, so in social situations, I am pretty awkward.

I was also bullied in elementary just because I dared to be different in a Red neck town. I was completely obsessed with comic book super-heroes like Spider-man, and just because they didnt share my opinions, they often made fun of me, and at times, even ganged up on me and pushed me around. It stopped somewhat in Jr. High, and now I am 198 cm tall (6'6"), so its stopped completely. But I still have troubles opening up and socializing with others.
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1ce · Posted: Sun Dec 11, 2005 3:31 pm Post subject:

Well certain childhood memories are sad and certain memories bring a smile to your face. It all depends where or how you were raised. Personally, I've had my ups and downs and whenever I feel sad, I can always remember the upside of things that had happened.