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I've never been in love before, I hope it wont be painful, but one thing I learned from someone.
"Never make someone your everything, because when that someone leaves you, all you're left is nothing"
It takes a minute to have a crush on someone,
An hour to like someone,
A day to love someone,
but it takes a LIFETIME to forget someone [ does this explain it all? ]
Here's a quote I made up
" Love can be replaced by another, but once a heart is broken, it will stay like that forever... " _________________ Life is full of truth, but I'd rather live in lies. I know if I live in lies, everything arent for real,but if you say you love me, is it something I could feel?
hmmm i really agree with your quotes. after a breakup, it took like eternity to me just to forget him, it took me a lot of time just to feel better again. well, we dont really think about feeling broken after, we just feel the moment, feel the love for the person. and then the breakup, we feel the moment, feel the broken heart. _________________ -LadyPaoline-
Joined: Oct 25, 2005 Posts: 933 Location: Cebu, Philippines
Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 10:53 am Post subject:
i havent' had any relationships before and i only base this from my observations of my sister.
she just had her first bf...about a month already(or maybe even longer cuz she was hesitant to tell me). anyway, what i noticed is that, she's slacking off in her responsibilities and such. i hope my pop wont notice this, he's strict to this sorta stuff. and she's always on the fone, talking to her bf, 24/7. damn for unlimited calls promos.
i really dont mind this. i mean they are a couple. but hell, even when i need her or ask her help, she declines it just to talk to her freakin bf. helloooo! lil sis needs help, emergency. what's worse, she cried during the holidays cuz they werent together to celabrate them....they both were in different places.
sry fenix i wasnt taking a shot at you in my post, sry if it came across like that. also like pyro said, buddhism is more of a philosophy, it's not really a religion. i remember going to a buddhist temple during school, buddha himself isn't the focus of buddhism, it's his teachings. our teacher told us that buddha himself said he didn't want to be worshipped. also i believe love cant really be explained off in words, it's something i believe you should try. though in the terms of does it hurt, somewhere along the line yes, though many things do hurt but aren't all that bad are they? i mean a medical operation may hurt but its all for the better isn't it? horrible analogy, love is nothing like that, though experience can help you in later relationships. once you've experienced it, knowing how to deal with the pain is invaluable.
Sorry for replying this late.. Have been gone all weekend >_<
I agree, as I said: love is worth the effort and the pain (most of the time). And I have experienced love, both good and bad..
I know buddhism is more like a philosophy; this is why I have an interest in it..
Don't really have much more to say -_-; _________________ "It is also paradox that the earth moves round the sun, and that water consists of two highly inflammable gases. Scientific truth is always paradox, if judged by every-day experience, which catches only the delusive appearance of things."
-Karl Marx
Joined: Sep 19, 2005 Posts: 268 Location: Between Heaven and Hell in a place called Earth
Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 11:03 pm Post subject:
Well I must say that some ppl here are right. Point is my little brother also has a gf and he's been slacking off in school even more. I have a gf but I'm not like him. Worst thing is when he's not with her they're talking on the phone, they're chatting or comunicating in any way they can. It's really annoying and when they break up it's going to be a tough blow for him. I say this because I've experienced this myself, so you should be carefull in how you make your relationship. _________________ Reality is wrong.
Dreams are for real.
Make your own path according to your dreams.
well it depends on what the other party does to hurt you emotionally but yes love can hurt and yet it can also heal... makes it sound like a double-edged sword... but i guess if the love is true and strong then one wouldn't get hurt
Joined: Mar 26, 2005 Posts: 8282 Location: stuck in tard tard land
Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 3:37 pm Post subject:
Avic7 wrote:
Blah, what is love? I know what lust is.
love is hard to describe....if not nearly impossible.....ppl say there are many different levels of love.....some say there are different types of love.....I think love is unique.....no person can love a person the same way as they love another.....even if emotion and feelings are similar.....you will love someone for different reasons....therefor its only normal that that love be unique...uurrg....its hard to describe.....
....I guess the best way to describe it is this way:
Love is like a leaf on a tree....they all look the same, they are all on the same tree..........but placed on different levels and part of the tree.......they are all different, no two leaf is the same......
eh eh....sorry...this is the easiest way I have of describing on how love is measured (or more that it cant be)..........
Nya......I'v probly just posted a bunch of crap.....
Joined: Nov 06, 2005 Posts: 108 Location: In The Land Of Twilight Under The Moon
Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2006 7:39 pm Post subject:
i guess, i depends
if you love someone, but they can't return the feeling, then helll yeah it hurt. it feels like your heart have a deep hole in it _________________ *Kindly resize your sig to the permitted size*
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Love is like a leaf on a tree....they all look the same, they are all on the same tree..........but placed on different levels and part of the tree.......they are all different, no two leaf is the same......
maybe you are right... the perfect one could be right in front and yet we missed it... and as for the different levels well one would have to know him/her a little better to notice
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