Do Love really Hurt?

auc · Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 9:11 am Post subject: Do Love really Hurt?

just asking ^ ^..

ohayo · Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 11:01 am Post subject:

oops... i think is yes it do hurt sometimes... depend whether anot you can take it Crying or Very sad

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Bowser · Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 11:07 am Post subject:

Well....I guess to love and lose it is a painfull experiance.
it also hurts to like someone but not to be liked in return, especialy if the other person hardly notices you or you know that that person likes someone else...

A good quote is:
"love is the best....but its also the worst"

manwithnoname · Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 2:51 pm Post subject:

it really depends on what happens if u are really devoted then he/she dumps u then what happens

possibly this
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Fenix · Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 3:41 pm Post subject:

The first truth is that life is suffering i.e., life includes pain, getting old, disease, and ultimately death. We also endure psychological suffering like loneliness frustration, fear, embarrassment, disappointment and anger. This is an irrefutable fact that cannot be denied. It is realistic rather than pessimistic because pessimism is expecting things to be bad.

You can go on: They suffer when they lose a loved one through separation or death.

Everything is perishable. If you love someone, there's a good chance it'll end up in separation. Even if this doesn't happen one of you will eventually die, and thus will cause suffering and therefore pain to the one left behind.

So yes, love hurts.
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KingDarr · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Jan 03, 2006 Posts: 64

it depends on whethere or not u really like them, half of the time people like others just because they're cute or they're bored and needed to kill time
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madox · newbie! Joined: Jun 29, 2005 Posts: 37

dont know ... i never fell in love before .... i have no idea on how does it feels like ....

kuey · newbie! Joined: Oct 09, 2005 Posts: 33 Location: Aus

Wow Fenix that was a really deep reply, but it's a kind of sad take that life is suffering, I mean there are also the good bits aren't there? Like being loved, having mates that stick up for you when you're down and as to those psychological sufferings there are also the flipsides to those as well. Sorry I'm really getting away from the question, and despite what I said Fenix is right, but just looking at the down side to love won't allow you enjoy it's ups. Like the saying goes, better to have loved and lsot than never loved at all... Being realistic though many people disagree, I would on occasions too say that the pain the love can inflict upon you can be greater than any physical pain you endure.

Also I'm not sure if people are getting too deep on your question, so reckon any possiblity you can narrow it down?

v-boi2002 · Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 11:08 pm Post subject:

It's like playing a sport, as thrilling as it is to play a sport, your bound to run into some into some kind of trouble whether it's a technical foul, or a physical.

Love is supposed to be a good thing. Something painful like a quarrel and such is something that just comes with it. Naturally.

But if your talking about rejection or your being cheated on, then that is something else.
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Fenix · Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 12:24 pm Post subject:

Elvin · Yari Ashigaru Joined: Jun 08, 2005 Posts: 283

there's nothing wrong with love itself. it's the crap that gets in the way of it that hurts you.

DarkCat43 · Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 8:31 pm Post subject:

That is true. things are perishable. I agree that love hurts. I beg to disagree that it dissapears. It's still there. Deep down. But yes...love does hurt. It can be very painfull. but there is one good thing about it. Cool

It builds you up. I makes you stronger. That kind of pain is good. You get dumped? Cry it out...don't get angry though. Crying once in a while can be satisfying. Or maybe just scream and yell as hard as you can untill you lett all the steam out. It can help you. Pain builds character. And you get more chances later in life. It's called experience. Some is bad...some is good. I like what Fenix said though. And for the most part I agree.
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kaykay · Shogun Joined: Jul 22, 2005 Posts: 2622 Location: Cali

ummm i guess i wouldn't really know since i have never really been IN love b4...just had flings & crushes my whole life i suppose...i just have love for friends and fam. u know~? easier that way too..less stressfull and less hecktic.

but i think love can hurt...@ least internally or emotionally~!

BUT....doubt it'll happen to me.....don't really wanna make that kind of emotional attachment or any kind of commitment~!

lol wat's funny is that the song "i'm so sick of love songs " is playing on the radio right nowz..lol
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DarkCat43 · Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 8:47 pm Post subject:

Ah yes...those songs are kind of annoying. Cool

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Xristyan · Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 9:30 pm Post subject:

as the song goes... love hurts... it is inevitable with our human imperfections... no matter how much we try to please and appease... we will screw up and end up hurting someone or even ourselves...
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