Another topic on love...

Xristyan · Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 10:01 pm Post subject: Another topic on love...

I would just like to ask you guys if you think love is a choice or not... i have my own answer and explanation and i would just like to know your opinions.. there is no definite correct or wrong answers.. this is opinion based anyway.... and uhh please explain your answer... Very Happy

EDIT: and if it is all possible uhhh choose only one... its got to be one or the other... just try.. Very Happy

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logs · Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 10:05 pm Post subject:

i think it is a little bit of both... cause there are times that you just fall in love with out realizing it.. you werent trying to fall in love but you did...

now about homo love... that is 100% a choich... they say they were born that way and that God made them this way but homo is not part of Gods plan..
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pyrorecca · Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 10:05 pm Post subject:

Yes and no.

You have the choice to open yourself up to love or not. But you don't have a choice who you fall in love with.

But hey. I'm 16. I've never had a steady gf so I don't know much.

logs · Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 10:06 pm Post subject:

Xristyan · Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 10:08 pm Post subject:

16.. you still got a long way to go dude.. don't worry... enjoy the single life if you are single.. do the things you want to do before you get tied down to something like marriage.. OMG WTH am i saying ur 16! u shud not be thinking of such things... hahaha...
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sakuya87 · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Dec 21, 2004 Posts: 90

I also believe that it is a yes and no answer. Love can be choosen like if you want to continue the love or stop it. But you cannot really stop love, even though you might say you hate maybe your sibling or mother or father or one of your family members, inside you acually love them. Maybe at some point you might REALLY hate them but you can't stop the hate either. Wink

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joekool · Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 1:01 am Post subject:

i would say yes as it is a 2 way street after all

xenon10 · Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 6:17 am Post subject:

both. you cant choose who to fall in love with but you can choose whether you'll go for it or not.

probably the same as pyro's answer.

he's 16? he said he was younger than me. we're of the same age.

Murkki · Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 9:16 am Post subject:

Both to me too. You really cant choose who you fall in love with...
I falled in love because of my friend and I didnt choose nothing. :o
But of course, you can choose will you take the change or not.
And even if you do, it will not always work out...

Bowser · Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 11:52 am Post subject:

As most ppl said....its a bit of both....

We dont always have control over our fealings/emotions.....but on the other hand we have the ability to judge what actions should/shouldnt be taken.....

taisetsu · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Aug 03, 2005 Posts: 58

Do we really need to have an definate answer? ;_;? Well, then again, I could just NOT post in this thread. >.>" Anyway, I think that we dun really have a choice, because if you realize you're in love, you cannot really do much about it.

ladypaoline · newbie! Joined: Jan 14, 2006 Posts: 46

hey guys , love can't be just an option because its how your heart feel toward somebody. we can control and can't control our feelings at the same time, the phenomen can happen at the same time.
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pnayako · Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 11:17 pm Post subject:

No. Love just comes and goes. Love can be felt as a choice when someone is usually living in the dark and cold. It's felt as "life" or "package" when your heart is all opened up. But, when your heart is indeed OPENED meaning opened up with wounds and scars, it's a choice, but it can never be optional for everyone not to love, everyone loves something even though we dont usually realize what that something is.
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rmv89 · newbie! Joined: Jan 30, 2006 Posts: 29

Yes and no. Yes, you have the choice of loving someone back, but that isn't true love. True love is not a choice.

And either way, people these days don't know the meaning of the word. It's an overused word whose meaning remains a mystery to those who use it. Half the kids in my school would tell you that it's about the way they look or how they act around you or whether or not they're willing to go all the way but that's a total lie.

A lot of you have probably been quick to guess that I haven't had a girlfriend and you guessed right. But that doesn't mean that I don't know what I'm talking about.

pyrorecca · Posted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 1:47 am Post subject: