Theory on love and marriage

zyphelin · newbie! Joined: Oct 03, 2007 Posts: 10

ya its true...
love is for all
no matter what he/she is...

N07 · newbie! Joined: Aug 26, 2007 Posts: 13

there are so many different kinds of love, unconditional love is just one of those. and for marriage, its this kind of love that is necessary, sadly its not always the love that people have when they join together in matrimony,

bflores · newbie! Joined: Oct 04, 2007 Posts: 12

i think that people now in days get married without really loving their mate. i don't think that people who love their partener would suddenly fall for someone else. if that does happen then the person didn't really love them.

Dobby · Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2007 7:49 am Post subject:

I agree of that post topic that you said cause some people who love the ones they.
love and some are not content that's why some peoples are, sadly its not always the love that people have when they join together in matrimony.
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trueline · Pure Hope Joined: Jun 13, 2006 Posts: 5134

There are many kinds of love in this world but people mixed them together that even others keep misunderstanding other's relationship till they reveal.

In my opinion, if people dont want to married because they heard that survey says a number of couples end with divorce or it doesn't last long then they shouldn't take any bf/gf because a number of them end up breaking. That would be fair enough.

If you think that marriage is a respoinsiblity then having gf/bg is the same unless your afraid to let other know how many lovers you had.

If getting divorce sounds aweful or hurt that much then breaking up is worse. I know someone who was pregnant then she married another man because her previous lover (the father's child) deny being his father. This is something natural, women always end up being the victum.
At least if that man was her husban instead of bf then the chances of denying this child would be less.

Anyway, I don't believe on such love as true love before marriage. If one want to be treated as friend then be his/her friend and if you want to be treated as lover then be her/his husband/wife. Simple way to avoid complicate problems.

You might ask how can they married without knowing each other. Be hr fiancee if that isn't enough then does sleeping with her, kissing, hugging,...etc would be enough?

A well known sentence among teenage, "Love me yes. Marry me No" why? I'm not ready yet or something similar to these excuses then why from the start you were searching for a lover or accepted her as lover . To satisfy your desiers? or your gonna say that again I'm only checking you, booking or whatever to see or decide wheather you match me or not. Checking others doesn't mean take her virginaty or even kissing and hugging I'm not sure what one will check from doing so =/

I know not all people do that but still I don't know why not marrying or at least being fiancee. Is there anything that your not allow to do it when having gf/bf than after marriage. I believe there isnt, both are the same with different nick name (bf/gf and husband/wife). Children? well in some country its legal. I think thats why marriage lost its value
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