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darksunday newbie!

Joined: Mar 08, 2005 Posts: 29 Location: Canada
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Posted: Fri Jun 08, 2007 5:15 am Post subject: Is there anyone having true love? |
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or maybe u think there is ture love in the world.....i'm very confuse now... i like a girl for 7years,i dont know she like me or not...and i dont even know if she did recognized me or not......the point is i cant find her.... and i've heard from someone ,they were saying she got a bf 2 years ago.....
should i quit? or should i find her and tell her what i been feeling all the time? |
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darksunday newbie!

Joined: Mar 08, 2005 Posts: 29 Location: Canada
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Posted: Fri Jun 08, 2007 5:17 am Post subject: |
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| errrr...... love pain... |
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manwithnoname Ronin Samurai

Joined: Nov 01, 2005 Posts: 689 Location: Behind you
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Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 8:57 pm Post subject: |
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lol thats a long time >.< i (being me) would find a way to indirectly tell her ur feelings lol but of course thats just me and im no "love expert" ive had my ups and downs ... (0)_(0) >,< but it will only stay painful for a bit if u just give up while if u tell her it will stay painful less longer >.>.....
(i prolly just made no sense >.< just ask me in a pm if u need this cleared up or u can email me at bokunotsubasa@bluebottle.com) _________________ Want advice DONT WORK AT WALMART... Theres your freebie... |
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Cherry-Kun Kami-Sama no Senshi & A-Source DJ

Joined: Dec 16, 2005 Posts: 5322 Location: wondering around
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Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 9:23 pm Post subject: |
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dark> first, dont double post. use the edit button.
second, yes! there is true love. i believe each person finds what true love is one way or another.
look! smthn my dad told me when i was going to have my firs gf 2 years ago was: "you will never know which is your favorite movie until you watch it". that means try!, you wont loose anything. if she rejects you that means shes not your true love and you have to look for her.
try man, try! _________________
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Xristyan THE Forumer®


Joined: May 09, 2005 Posts: 21728 Location: At the Left Coast of The Maple Leaf
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Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 1:48 am Post subject: |
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cherry has a very good point...
though it is possible it is highly unlikely that people would just look at someone and say that they got struck by true love...
for me true love is when you are aware of all the faults and shortcomings of the other person and yet you still chose to love them despite it all...
with that said true love takes time... true love doesn't just happen.... you make it happen...
i believe in love is a choice and with true love, you CHOSE to love that person in spite of them not being able to meet your expectations and knowing that somewhere down the road they will consciously or unconsciously hurt you in ways you never thought possible...
anyways.. im getting a bit out of topic..
for you... best leave that girl for now and see what you have that is within your reach now...
there is too much to assume if you continue with your thing with the girl... one you have no clue if she likes you or even knows you... another is you don't know where she is... and there is this looming rumor that she may even be taken...
knowing her for 7 years doesn't really matter if only YOU know about her and she doesn't even know you exist...
but if you really want to be with her make an effort to know where she is and ACTUALLY engage her... meaning talk to her and get to know her... not necessarily tell her how you feel cause with your current premise... your up for a major dumping... just be friends with her and move on from there... that is if you ever locate her... _________________
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KiaraSota Naginata Ashigaru

Joined: Jan 18, 2007 Posts: 545 Location: Stuck in a tree with my laptop next to me
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Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 4:07 pm Post subject: |
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Dude, I feel sorry for you.
I'd say, start off trying to find her if you can...and court her! Bring flowers everyday, talk to her, but don't make any other advances >.<...then she will make her own reply for you. Courtship like that is very flattering
...and I don't know about true love...I haven't really found anyone that I'd love to that extent. I kind of understand the concept of love though, that's why I can write poetry about it...
Love is what you make for yourself - I don't think there is such a thing as 'true' love. Romance is dead, but Love is eternal. It is because humans are immortal that the concept of love exists - so live for the moment!Go storm her heart! No matter whether she likes someone else or not - just be there for her!!!!! _________________ "My honesty hurts, more than the lies you told me,
But sometimes only liars can be kind."
This is what you told me as you closed your eyes.
The simple sadness of losing you is overwhelming,
But I'm waiting for you, in a world without you. |
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