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Joined: Nov 29, 2004 Posts: 8365 Location: Futaba District, Fukushima Japan
Posted: Thu Aug 23, 2007 4:10 am Post subject:
stop killing kittens, haha
subbergod wrote:
Come on xeno, did you really not realise I was joking? I mean come on, I do this all the time for god's sake. Even I recognise that date rape is totally innopropriate. Except sometimes.
doesn't matter if you're kidding or not... it's not even the kind of thing anyone should be joking about. It's a real crime that fucks up people for life and it shouldn't be taken lightly. I know rape victims and they spaz out over the simplest things like just being touched at all. That's not the kind of thing guys think about while they're getting what they want. It's still disgusting and doesn't belong on these forums. This is meant to be against you specifically, subber, I just don't want it on here in general.
thank you to whichever mod editted out those pics.
moving along...
copywheeluser wrote:
Yay! The countdown of love is 52 hours. For my date, we're sneaking into our old highschool at highschool and having a picnic. I scoped it out and researched. The gates to the field remain unlocked for a night after the soccer game. The grass is fake so it won't be unbearably cold, just cold enough that she'll need to snuggle. And no midnight sprinklers. And the moon is looking pretty nice from where I am. I know what you're thinking, I think a lot, and yes you're right.
What does everybody think? Advice?
52 hours? Yes, you're definitely thinking about it too much, haha. Is this the girl that you're friends with that you've been crushing on?
So wait... you're going on a moonlit picnic in the middle of a field? I suppose that's romantic... is that all you have planned though? I'm assuming some other event is planned out since it sounds like you're doing this late at night. Just watch out for the cops... they drive around checking public-areas all night long. I also hope it doesn't rain... that would suck.
Advice... erm... I dunno... music? Watch out for foxes/coyotes/wild dogs, haha. _________________ GTX: Great Teacher Xeno... my daily blog about teaching in an elementary and middle school in Japan (see right-menu)
doesn't matter if you're kidding or not... it's not even the kind of thing anyone should be joking about. It's a real crime that fucks up people for life and it shouldn't be taken lightly. I know rape victims and they spaz out over the simplest things like just being touched at all. That's not the kind of thing guys think about while they're getting what they want. It's still disgusting and doesn't belong on these forums. This is meant to be against you specifically, subber, I just don't want it on here in general.
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Joke or not, it's not funny... call me no sense of humor, but these stuff disgust me.
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I'm requesting them to be deleted. My eyes bled. Please.
You edited my posts?!
I didn't break any forum rules.
1) Be nice to eachother.
2) If you must flame, keep it in the Free for All forum.
3) Porn/Hentai stays in the Ecchi forum.
I was not being mean to anyone, except when joking, and there was no Porn/Hentai.
The darker a subject may be the more it needs humor. A great man once said that, and he was right. And here I mention date abuse, and you flip and edit my posts? I know you have the RIGHT, but you should try to be less controlling and ditch the censorship. Just because you don't like my humor, dosen't mean its bad. If you keep holding back free speech, Colbert will come and teach you a lesson.
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- editted by xeno, fixed your image tags so I could see the Colbert goodness, haha _________________ Official winner of the A-S Worst Thread Ever Award
I didn't break any forum rules.
1) Be nice to eachother.
2) If you must flame, keep it in the Free for All forum.
3) Porn/Hentai stays in the Ecchi forum.
I was not being mean to anyone, except when joking, and there was no Porn/Hentai.
The darker a subject may be the more it needs humor. A great man once said that, and he was right. And here I mention date abuse, and you flip and edit my posts? I know you have the RIGHT, but you should try to be less controlling and ditch the censorship. Just because you don't like my humor, dosen't mean its bad. If you keep holding back free speech, Colbert will come and teach you a lesson.
It's people like you that are the reason man is losing to machine
xenocrisis wrote:
52 hours? Yes, you're definitely thinking about it too much, haha. Is this the girl that you're friends with that you've been crushing on?
It's not the same as a first date, she actually told me that she liked me for a while, then I asked her out. So, there's really a lot more pressure than you'd think.
Music, yes!
No animals or rain, dun wory bout that!
T-29 hours!
Joined: May 09, 2005 Posts: 21728 Location: At the Left Coast of The Maple Leaf
Posted: Thu Aug 23, 2007 9:33 pm Post subject:
copy>> well i just wish you luck on your first date...
don't think about it too much.. that would just add to the pressure leading to what might be bad things...
just go with the flow... let the situation dictate to where you will go... but have enough control that it doesn't go too iffy...
so stargazing in the middle of the field at the dead of night... actually sounds cool... just be wary of the police that might patrol the area and bums roaming around... music would be something to have in handy too... maybe a few easy listening or mellow sounds might be good..
as far as I know first dates don't really go as planned.. hahaha... somehow something is amiss.. though if you are one of the lucky ones that get to have everything going for'em then kudos to you... _________________
Joined: Nov 29, 2004 Posts: 8365 Location: Futaba District, Fukushima Japan
Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 1:42 am Post subject:
subbergod wrote:
You edited my posts?!
I didn't break any forum rules.
1) Be nice to eachother.
2) If you must flame, keep it in the Free for All forum.
3) Porn/Hentai stays in the Ecchi forum.
I was not being mean to anyone, except when joking, and there was no Porn/Hentai.
you forget that any content is subject to the discretion of the forum moderator. I don't know which mod made the edits, but it was their final decision. Nothing personal against you. Personally, I don't have anything against you.
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The darker a subject may be the more it needs humor. A great man once said that, and he was right. And here I mention date abuse, and you flip and edit my posts? I know you have the RIGHT, but you should try to be less controlling and ditch the censorship. Just because you don't like my humor, dosen't mean its bad. If you keep holding back free speech, Colbert will come and teach you a lesson.
like I said before... I know rape victims. I have to deal with the situation with strangers, too, while I'm at work. I can already tell you that NOT A SINGLE ONE OF THEM would find these kind of jokes humorous. What would your position be if someone you knew was raped... a friend, a sister, a cousin... your own girlfriend. You wouldn't be able to laugh it off, I can tell you that.
copywheeluser wrote:
It's not the same as a first date, she actually told me that she liked me for a while, then I asked her out. So, there's really a lot more pressure than you'd think.
hmm... I would think that would make the situation easier. I've dated plenty of girls I was friends with beforehand and I found it easier than dating the girls I barely knew. Well, good luck anyhow. _________________ GTX: Great Teacher Xeno... my daily blog about teaching in an elementary and middle school in Japan (see right-menu)
It's people like you that are the reason man is losing to machine
You need to expand your point further, before I can even attempt to rebuke.
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you forget that any content is subject to the discretion of the forum moderator. I don't know which mod made the edits, but it was their final decision. Nothing personal against you. Personally, I don't have anything against you.
I didn't forget. I'm not stupid enough to thing that I have some sort of legal right to free speech on this forum. I even said in the post that I know you have the RIGHT to do it. I simply said you SHOULDN'T because censorship is wrong. I am very glad to hear you didn't edit my posts. You will be spared a short and painfull visit from Colbert.
To whoever did edit them: You're on notice!
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What would your position be if someone you knew was raped... a friend, a sister, a cousin... your own girlfriend. You wouldn't be able to laugh it off, I can tell you that.
Funny you should say that. My friend Crysthal was gangraped and impregnated in NY 3 years back. I can laugh it off. [/code] _________________ Official winner of the A-S Worst Thread Ever Award
Joined: Jun 03, 2005 Posts: 2932 Location: In the land of twilight, under the moon
Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 3:11 am Post subject:
This is were I step in with something a little bit more simple... stop going off topic, if you two want to discuss the whole thing you got going on, make a new thread about it or pm each other. I doubt people would go in to this thread that's about first dates or whatever and find people talking about rape and censorship.
Isn't dating actually directly related to rape? Date rape is a deadly serious menace that happens in society, and I am doing my best here to warn the good people of this forum of the dangers. This is NOT off topic. _________________ Official winner of the A-S Worst Thread Ever Award
Joined: Jun 03, 2005 Posts: 2932 Location: In the land of twilight, under the moon
Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 7:08 pm Post subject:
He's asking for advice for first kisses and your opinion about the plans he made for the date not the best way to get her alone and rape her. Do you notice how it's two different things? No? Then to bad for you, if you want to talk about gang rape make a thread that's how hard it is. If you keep baiting for arguments etc I will start deleting your posts so your next post here better be about his plans for the date.
actually although maybe surprising. i've never been on a date
(because no one asks me to go to them ) haha, but i think thats
a pretty interesting date, although... isn't that kinda risky and strange?
i mean, you're SNEAKING in right?
pretty romantic overall, hopefully you're not stressing too much.
and um...bring a blankie for snuggling? _________________ "The basis of optimism is sheer terror."
(,,#ﾟДﾟ):∴;'･,;`:ｺﾞﾙｧ!!
Joined: Nov 29, 2004 Posts: 8365 Location: Futaba District, Fukushima Japan
Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 11:25 pm Post subject:
spankit wrote:
eisen's a hardass.
haha, I don't mess with eisen... he's brutal scary
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actually although maybe surprising. i've never been on a date
(because no one asks me to go to them )
Spankit, will you go out with me? I'm being serious... we can meet in the middle... I think that would be somewhere around Michigan, haha
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haha, but i think thats
a pretty interesting date, although... isn't that kinda risky and strange?
i mean, you're SNEAKING in right?
it's like something you'd see in a teenage comedy movie. Prolly not a good idea to bring any apple pie or flutes... or drawings of ligers.
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pretty romantic overall, hopefully you're not stressing too much.
and um...bring a blankie for snuggling?
or to at least keep grass stains away.
I lost count... I think he's on his romantic interlude tonight. ooooooooohh _________________ GTX: Great Teacher Xeno... my daily blog about teaching in an elementary and middle school in Japan (see right-menu)
You know, if this thread is about the best friend he mentioned previously elsewhere, it would be a shame they weren't all in one thread. If that were the case we'd be able to see a neat progression from start to finish and learn which advice worked in his case. Of course, I have always been the type to live vicariously through others.
You need to expand your point further, before I can even attempt to rebuke.
Girls aren't turned on by arrogance anymore. You may think it makes them want you more, but it just reminds them they don't need to put up with that crap anymore. Your joking about date rape is going to hurt "us", in the long run- well you anway, I'm not part of your group anymore.
success!
We watched Super Bad in theater, then took a ride on my motorcycle (purposly driving dangerously because she's terrified of them), had a picnic after breaking into school, drank a tad, reminisced, played soccer, then kissed, yay! well, more like made out yay! She slipped and fell, and I tried to help her up, and it just sorta happened. Laying down also fixes the height problem, didn't think of that I know what you're thinking, we didn't drink that much. Two glasses of merlot, that's all.
It was a great night, the moon was full, but no stars, and it was kind of warm for 1:00 in the morning.
One thing did make me sad though, she said she would be moving in a couple months for a job oppurtunity.
This could mean a couple things, but I'm not sure.
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You know, if this thread is about the best friend he mentioned previously elsewhere, it would be a shame they weren't all in one thread. If that were the case we'd be able to see a neat progression from start to finish and learn which advice worked in his case. Of course, I have always been the type to live vicariously through others.
My life is not a national geographic! xD, But the go for it advice worked, it turned out she did like me.
xenocrisis wrote:
hmm... I would think that would make the situation easier. I've dated plenty of girls I was friends with beforehand and I found it easier than dating the girls I barely knew. Well, good luck anyhow.
you don't seem like the kind of guy that can't hold onto a girlfriend
just sayin
Xrystan wrote:
so stargazing in the middle of the field at the dead of night... actually sounds cool... just be wary of the police that might patrol the area and bums roaming around... music would be something to have in handy too... maybe a few easy listening or mellow sounds might be good..
No stars! We lay for a while or so looking at the vast nothingness of the universe! Music would have attracted the bums attention, so no music.
Joined: Nov 29, 2004 Posts: 8365 Location: Futaba District, Fukushima Japan
Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 2:11 am Post subject:
copywheeluser wrote:
success!
congrats!
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One thing did make me sad though, she said she would be moving in a couple months for a job oppurtunity.
This could mean a couple things, but I'm not sure.
ah, I think there was another thread for that... wasn't there? I'll have to go look
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xenocrisis wrote:
hmm... I would think that would make the situation easier. I've dated plenty of girls I was friends with beforehand and I found it easier than dating the girls I barely knew. Well, good luck anyhow.
you don't seem like the kind of guy that can't hold onto a girlfriend
just sayin
I suppose that's a compliment, haha. Meh, life happens, things happen... plus who's not to say that I wasn't the one to break it off
v-boi2002 wrote:
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Spankit, will you go out with me? I'm being serious... we can meet in the middle... I think that would be somewhere around Michigan, haha
Don't you have a girlfriend already?
haha, not at the time. Just for the hell of it, my dating history is as follows:
my age/her age, year we started - length of relationship:
15/15, 1996 - 9 months
17/17, 1998 - 8 months
18/15, 1999 - 2 weeks
18/14, 1999 - 2 weeks
20/20, 2001 - 8 months
21/17, 2002 - 2 years, 5 months
24/26, 2005 - 1 year, 3 months
I've been single since January, but that's fine. It would be nice to have someone at my side, but I have friends, work, and anime (watching, a-source, and anime-boston) to keep me busy. I'm in anime club and will be taking Japanese lessons soon, so I'm getting out of the house and meeting new people all the time now.
PS... stay away from dating websites. They're all a big crock. You're better off sending your money on something like a community class or some other group activity where you can meet new people. _________________ GTX: Great Teacher Xeno... my daily blog about teaching in an elementary and middle school in Japan (see right-menu)
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