What do you say when you GET dumped by a girl/boy?

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< As the topic states >I just wanted to hear what people have to say about this. I'm curious of what people might do.
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spankit · A-Source Staff Joined: Jan 29, 2006 Posts: 4562

erm...

"i'm not interested in dating right now."

which is true Very Happy

i always though honesty was good, but all the guys complain
about "lets be friends" thing. they should just suck it up...
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xenocrisis0153 · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 4:39 am Post subject:

when you GET dumped?

you say "okay, I understand your feelings, thanks for the memories, good luck in life" and be a man about it. None of this "die in Hell, bitch!!" or "I hope your next bf is a jerk to you" crap... and especially none of that revenge junk. It's petty, it's childish, and if karma has anything to say about it, you're just cursing yourself. What goes around, comes around, so you're best to just be civil.

And if that's not enough, just remember that:
- no one owes you anything
- if it doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be
- it's always darkest before the dawn

Just cause someone doesn't want to be with you doesn't mean it's the end of the world. Pick yourself up, improve what needs to be improved, and move on to the next person.
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Kuro-Sama · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 7:10 pm Post subject:

Man, if I can remember what I said those times, I'd tell you, but I can't seem to remember, but I was dumped 2 times [although one time...the girl liked me back after a while...].

rag_gurl · Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 10:50 pm Post subject:

Curious of what we do huh....hmmm...
I think it depends on how sprung I am with that person, and if I am and I get dumped, I think my heart would sink to the lowest pit of hell....I can seriously imagine myself totally crushed and lifeless swaying around on the school campus gounds like that one girl from the ring. That is a hilarious, sad, scary, depressing sight. But yeah, I would just keep my head up while I'm getting dumped, and after that it's okay to watch all the Korean soap operas I want. Gosh...that is depressing. LoL.

giggity · Posted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 12:23 am Post subject:

well wat i would say if i would be getting dumped is

"well if thats how u feel then u know im sure its the right thing to do. (i would try and say this as casually as i can) *haha* i had some good times with u while it lasted anyway Razz

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i would probably say something along those lines. i usually try and keep in touch or at least be friends with those that i dump or get dumped by. tho i havnt been in too many relationships so i dont worry about these kinds of things
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reddarkavenger · newbie! Joined: Sep 02, 2007 Posts: 1

If i got dumped, I'd shout out "WHAT!? YOUR GAY"

izza · Posted: Tue Sep 25, 2007 8:31 pm Post subject:

I say: Well I didn't like you any way. Even if it wasn't true.

NeL · Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 10:31 am Post subject:

that day when i was dumped...

I say: i like you.

She say: i'm sorry, i've just been in a relationship and it's still in my mind rightnow. i don't want you to think that you're just my replacement for my past relationship. i hope we still become friends after this.

I say: okay, so it's friends... right?

She say: yeah. thanks for the things you've done to me...

- After that, i didn't talk to her until now -

note: most of the 4-digit posters knows this, since i've discussed it here before so yeah...

Xristyan · Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 2:20 pm Post subject:

nel>> i remember that... Very Happy

as for me...

can't really give an answer since i haven't been dumped... or so i think... hahaha...

but if ever... i wonder how I shall react... Confused

more likely... "hmmm, owkay..."
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Cherry-Kun · Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 12:14 am Post subject:

ooooooooh yeah.........i got dumped once..............big time............... i think i wrote this on the LTE before, but just for the sake of this thread:

the resume: on our school trip i got to get close to a girl from another section of my same grade (i was in 5th grade section A and she was in section B)
there were some romantic moments between us at the sanctuary of Macchu Picchu.
after the trip, during the last months of our high school lifes we knew we liked each other. then.................

*gyaaah!!............to painful ..........must keep on..... remember*

then.......the last day of school, after the final examn, after the x-mas lil celebration..............i decided to confess my feelings.

-Me: i........i .........kinda like you.......
-She: yeah, i like you too, but i like you as i like bread with guacamole
-Me:
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( O@O)
............you like me........as bread with guacamole?!?!?!?!?!?
-She: no! i mean......i like you as i like [a dude from her section] or as i like [a queer dude from my section]
-Me:
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( ¬x¬)

you rather [a queer dude from my section] than me?........
-She: n_nU i like you as a friend......thats it.
-Me:............oh! ................ok

later on i got info about why she really rejected me. i was too good for her. NO! i dont mean "yeah, im too cool for her, im such a hunk" NO!
i mean that mi behaviour was too much of a good boy and although thats what she liked from me she was afraid of hurting my feelings on some way if we a became a couple. a pretty nice gesture from her, really.

i havent talked to her since then n_nU not that i hold a grunge on her.....but i would feel a bit embarrased. plus! i dont know where she lives and shes never on line at msn xD

so, thats my reaction
i accept the dump and then i go all shy Embarassed

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Satsujin · Yari Ashigaru Joined: Aug 04, 2005 Posts: 209

whenever I get dumped I just say "seriously?well whatever that makes you happy" than find the closest convenient store and get drunk back way home,the next day I wake up,everything will return to normal.

spankit · A-Source Staff Joined: Jan 29, 2006 Posts: 4562

aww crude.
GET dumped?

well that hasn't happened yet.
but i guess i'd be very embarassed and angry.
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sukebesama · Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 11:02 pm Post subject:

Depending on the time of day, I either say:

I apologize for how I have been so insensitive to your needs, but I cannot continue this... As much as I like you, I cannot love you the way you love me. I'm very sorry I cannot return your affections, because I... it's me, not you, really. I think we can still be friends after this. No, we cannot be friends with benefits. Well, I need to go now, call you tonight? Bye bye.

Or:

I just dated you for the sex. Why aren't you out of here yet?

In the hypothetical situation that I am "dumped", I call a hit.