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trueline Pure Hope

Joined: Jun 13, 2006 Posts: 5134
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 2:07 pm Post subject: How do you show your love to anyone? |
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As the topic says. How do you show your love to anyone your mother, sister, teacher, or whoever?
I read this question somewhere and there were options like giving red flower, gifts (whether it is made by you or you buy it) , cake or any kinds of sweats, sending message, writing a poem,..etc
At first I thought I can use any of these but after thinking I don't recall giving any flower or sweats ever to those who I love before. I usually give gifts (mostly small things) or respect them more than others.
I think it all depend on the person but they're either by act or talk.
I usually support the "talk" thing more than acting.
So the point here, How do you show your love to anyone? _________________
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tenunda Conscript

Joined: Nov 15, 2005 Posts: 100 Location: Cyberspace
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 10:59 pm Post subject: |
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I have a hard time showing my feelings to anyone. The best way I know how to is just by being there for them whenever they need me. I remember their birthdays and the important things they tell me about, I give them an ear to listen to whenever they need one, I take care of the problems that they don't know how to take care of themselves, I feel bad whenever they cry and do what I can to make them laugh instead, and I get angry whenever someone hurts them.
I show my love for them by supporting them the best ways I know how, doing what I can, when I can, where I can, so that even when I can't say the words, they can still feel them. |
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Blackthorn Conscript

Joined: May 03, 2005 Posts: 105 Location: Wyoming <9 out of 10 Californians have no idea where Wyoming is!>
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 11:40 pm Post subject: |
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Although I'm usually not the type to remember dates of important things (Especially when my own birthday is) I think that being supportive has always been the key to showing affection.
But the hopeless romantic inside me believes that you need to bump it up a notch into vandalism. After all nothing says I love you like spray painting a girls name on an overpass or burning it into a football field. Heck, even shakespeare advised vandalism in As You Like It where Orlando cuts into the bark of every tree in the forest the name of his love.
And if all of that doesn't get her engine going try money. _________________ HCl before H20 makes a big bang |
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TheLoneBrit101 Daimyo

Joined: Nov 27, 2006 Posts: 1971 Location: In an ice cream tub!
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Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 12:56 pm Post subject: |
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Arguing.
That's the solution to all the world's problems. Arguing breeds love and thats wat the world needs....at least thats how it works with my girl and I. I can't think of one day when we're not arguing; mind you I mean arguing over small insignificant things not political ideologies or such complicated matters which can end up being messy.
With me dear mother I just act respectful and do as she says. Or at least I try to. _________________
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Visual A-Source Staff


Joined: Jul 11, 2007 Posts: 146
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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 10:08 am Post subject: |
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xenocrisis0153 A-Source Admin


Joined: Nov 29, 2004 Posts: 8365 Location: Futaba District, Fukushima Japan
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Posted: Sat Nov 10, 2007 3:17 am Post subject: |
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I'm guessing you're referring to non-romantic love since I don't see girlfriend or wife listed...
with my mom and sister... I guess spending time with them is my preferred method. Whether it be visiting home or meeting for dinner at a nice resturant, that's the route I choose.
As for teachers... I didn't have any that I "loved" but moreso respected and admired. With those ones, both males and females, I would usually just chit-chat before or after class with them. I would usually do better in those classes, so I'm not sure if I liked the teachers because I did well or I did well because I liked the teachers... but there was definitely a correlation.
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| Although I'm usually not the type to remember dates of important things (Especially when my own birthday is) |
haha, I'm the same way. I forget my own birthday sometimes. My family has never been big on celebrating occassions like that. _________________
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ultimasome A-Source Great Mama!

Joined: Jun 21, 2006 Posts: 5630 Location: Inside food!
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 7:01 am Post subject: |
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Hmm...intersting topic. As expected from lino~
Well, for me I always show my love in food. Giving a meal or making a sweets is how I show my love to my brothers only. The problem is that they dont eat it >__<# I make it with love and care and they put it the way it is unlike my ototou. For my mom..well nothing specific. I stay, talk with her or give her a present...etc. Although if my love for her reached its limit I buy her the things she likes. About my friends..give them my hw to copy it? ^^;;; _________________ "Blogger" |
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Angel_Armz Rosen Ritter~

Joined: Dec 05, 2006 Posts: 10983
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Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 11:02 pm Post subject: |
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For teachers ... well I don't really show any love and I'm too poor to afford any gifts to give them (well ... I'm poor not my family). But talking to them and joking doesn't necessarily mean I really like 'em. I show respect to my teacher through many ways. Sometimes I follow instructions, sometimes I laugh at their jokes. But usually I respect their ways of teaching, their method and their personality.
For my close allies, we joke offensively at each other because we know we won't get offended if said by any one of us. Jokes like:
*in the washroom*
Friend: So did it grow bigger than your pinky?
Me: Not yet, but getting there.
Friend: *nods and pats ... after he washes and drys his hand*
I have more jokes that are pretty ... offensive but I seriously don't want to cause a stir here. _________________
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TrueAncestor The Dark Winged Angel

Joined: Sep 08, 2005 Posts: 3819 Location: Within your darkest nightmares, and your deepest desires
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Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 2:14 am Post subject: |
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Its all about the little things.....being there everyday to show you care, thats how you show your love. It could be through a simple kiss, to a gift of any size, its the feeling behind it that counts in the end. This really applies to everyone really, whoever you love will surely appreciate what you do for them, no matter the size, as long as youre hearts in the right place. But you also have to consider who you are dealing with.....it could be the absolutely wrong thing to do even though you dont think it is. Yeah, complicated stuff. But awesome stuff too. ^^ _________________ Miku Miku!!
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NeL Kyunin Samurai

Joined: May 28, 2006 Posts: 1289 Location: inside a cruel place called REALITY
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Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 6:50 am Post subject: |
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i'm bad at expressing to people my gratitude to them.........
i just simply say "thank you".....
simple is meaningful right? |
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