Theory on love and marriage

[Doomsought]

Love is the willingness to die and live for anaother entity.
it is not limmeted to marage, but extends to family, friends, and God.

Marage is related to this in the maried couple must love eachother for it to work. But here comes in much confusion. People some times forget, or never realize the perpose of marage.

It, marage, is a binding contract between a man and a woman for the purpose of raising a family. Studies have shown a fathers pheremones slow a girls puberty. This only shows that the human being is built for this form of family unit. It is needed for the nurturing of healthy children.


Discuss.
If someone comes up with something good to add I will edit it in.
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[TheLoneBrit101]

This topic can be related to whether gay couples should be allowed to adopt (goes for lesbians too).

Yeah I agree with the love part, but the problem we seem to be having in the world is that everyone (mostly) is getting married because they think they are in love, and then when that flame goes out - poof! Divorce and watnot.

They were some figures shown at some point not to long ago (newspaper ?) which showed that 1 in 3 of committed people are in an affair or are at least thinking of having one.

[KiaraSota]

Ye Gods thats alot!

Hmm, I'm not that surprised though because people are much more reckless these days although that may be because of the extreme marketing of 'Love at first sight' which I find highly unlikely, but that may be because I'm pretty cynical...
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[Fission2]

why not wait a few years and see if gay marriages last longer then hetero marriages? it might because you probably cherish your marriage a lot more and are more selective towards your mate. I'd be interested in thsi stastic; but sadly there's not enough data to draw any conclusions as of yet. Have to wait probably 20 years or so, in which case I really wouldn't care anymore (probably)

[Angel_Armz]

[Xristyan]

i got confused at first... but now i get it..

THEORY on Love and MARRIAGE

this is something depressing.. survey sayd 80 percent of Canadians that get married don't last within a year... that is a staggering rate...

people think marriage is jsut becoming a legit couple but no.. marriage incompasses family as well... its a big responsibility that involves the couples and their child or children to be... decisions made regarding this have a lot riding on it..

so don't go into something like this if by say a year or so you can just decide to quit for that is irresponsible and those people lack the proper preparation to embark on such things...

i know a lot of people in my area would love to hate me for the statement im making.. like the divorce across the street... they say how should we know that it wouldn't work out.... well, though i agree that you can't really see things that far ahead it is still their fault and irresponsibility that made the whole situation messy... even before they got married they should have an inkling as to what makes the other tick... the time you spent with your significant other before you get married is not just spent on being all cuddly like how a lot of people do... it is a time to see what compliments you both, how are you different, what problems may arise with your differences and in that time before marriage how are you going to go around it???

its kinda iffy on how people tend to say that tehy love the person but then you hear them get divorced after a year.. i find that a big load of bull, you wasted your time and effort and their time and effort... its all waste.... your investment just went down the drain... pitiful...

hmmm... my thoughts are all jumbled.. hahahaha.. i sound like im making gibberish now...

you can ignore what i just said..
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[Doomsought]

I think you have something Xristyan, just needs a little working out.

acording to my theroy,
gay and lesbians are disrupting the natral order of things.
they don't have what it takes to creat a healthy child.
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If violence isn't the answer, you didn't use enough.
Most people operate under a fundamental misconception:
they believe most if not all people are good
It is saddly verry much not so.

[mangaddict_reborn]

[Cherry-Kun]

as a christian catholic, marriage is a very important thing to me

the marriage is a ceremony in which God bless the couple's love, being the couple man and woman, destinated to form a familly and raise it with love as God wants

now, what happens to gay marriage.......well, excuse me if i offend anyone here. gay marriage, by religious means, its impossible, it cannot exist, not that is a whim of the church, not at all, is that God didnt make it that way, due to that......its impossible.
the priest declaires the couple husband and wife, man and woman. why? coz the complement each other, not only by feelings, soul mates, half orange, etc. but by biological means. the man has a penis to insert it on a woman's vagina thus creating a new life when having sex and creating a familly as it should be.

now, take 2 men.....how are they going to complement each other biologically??? o__O. nope, that whole is not meant to get a penis inside it.

take 2 women....what is going to get inside their vaginas???

two men cannot have a baby coz men dont have an uterus to get pregnant. two women cant have a baby coz women dont have testicules to create sperms.

2 men, or 2 women cant make a familly by natural ways......they still have the adoption way, but thats not God's plans to human kind. so, why is this happening anyways??? is it God's will after all??? nope, we arent God's puppets, this is all humans will, our whim. God advices and helps, but is up to the human to do

in resume. marriage is a love union of man and woman to raise a familly with love, and that is the only way

it is my point of view, please respect it

*bows*

just in case, im not against gay couples, im not against gays at all. i only deffend God's plans and will as the christian catholic soldier i am
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[Fission2]

if we're going to bring gay marriages into questioning then this is way to serious for the light hearted ffa (lmfao this is kinda funny that i'm saying this here of all places) and should be moved to general discussions.

thing is i saw this coming; i was hoping we could have avoided the subject because this can seriously offend some people

[Kaiser]

I like the points mangaddict_reborn brought up.

To me love is when you are totally dedicated to each other and would pretty much sacrifice your life for your loved one. Thats what I think love mean to me.

Basing this critera on the general population, I don't really care if the two people who are in love are homosexual or heterosexual. I'm pretty sure everyone can love someone as much as the next couple. As such, same sex marriage is legal in Canada and the world hasn't come to an end as some religious people have told us.

I believe so far the divorce rate is something close to 50% of all marriages. So every couple has a 50/50 chance of getting divorced. So much for the sacred realm of marriage, till death do us part eh?

Marriage is overhyped and true love is under appreciated. Thats what really matters in my opinion.

Marriage is just a status that people want to achieve. It doesn't bring love.
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[du5k]

I'm beginning to be intersted in this topic...

Oh well, I post more when I come back, but I'll say the higher break-up rate and divorce rate is due to
1. People now sees divorce as a "choice", not "last resort".
2. People now like to keep things to themselves... Heart-to-heart talk are really rare now.

[NeL]

[du5k]

I'll say it woulnd be really fair to judge a marriage because I haven experienced one, but I feel that marriage is a confirmation that you want to spent the rest of your life with this special person. It's takes more than love to do it, but then, the rest can be committed through love.

[NeL]

yes, i agree du5k, i really admire my parents, even though they sometimes fight, the reconcile and understands each other so well.... i wish that i can have that marrige also.......