What do you think about your parents

Love_Hate · newbie! Joined: Apr 23, 2008 Posts: 5

I really hate everyone in my family. Not speaking this out of anger but out of rage. That is how much I hate them.

Fission2 · Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 4:15 pm Post subject:

there are people in the world that legitimately have reason to hate their parents and those that don't. i won't be arrogant enough to say which category you fall under, but ask you to reflect deeply before hasty decisions because most people don't have reason to and regret later on in life.

i readily admit that i say unkind things to my mother regularly, a fact that i'm more than ashamed to admit. i'm not a exemplary son, and the black-sheep of the family. my mother takes measures that i often find myself in conflict with and my ire is quick to ignite. despite all the fighting that we go through and all the arguing, i can forgive her for all her faults because i know that she forgives mine.

your parents are the only people in the world that would act out of pure benevolence towards you; they've sacrificed more than you can comprehend. humans are the only species on the whole planet that allow their children to come back home after their children have left the nest. i mean not to be judgmental, but you should treasure your parents every bit as much as you treasure yourself - because blood is much thicker than water.

Love_Hate · newbie! Joined: Apr 23, 2008 Posts: 5

the_scarcifyx · Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 11:01 pm Post subject:

They Suck!
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Cherry-Kun · Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 11:36 pm Post subject:

well, i do love them and i know they love me for all the support they have given me always. they keep on pushing me out the nest and keep telling me to fulfill my dreams, what better than that?

plus! my dad is a military officer and he allows me to have long hair ;9

YES!

coz a more traditional militar dad would say: "God damnit! what did i have? a son or a daughter? come here you lil bastard, im going to shave your head" and such xD

actually my mom is the one that always wants to take me to the hairdresser. well! she married a militar, so i guess she thinks a man with short hair is attractive xD never the less, she gives me that freedom too

so yeah! my parents are pretty cool, they rock! \m/ (>.< )

i think theres already a thread with this topic............dont remember well
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ultimasome · Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 1:42 am Post subject:

There are good parents and bad ones. My family love me although there are little sign which proof they do. The one and only proof is that they took care of me till I became what I am now.

I shouldn't doubt if they love me or not. Rather I should always ask myself "Did I respect them enough?". Sometimes, I hate my mum, but I always feel guilty over what I felt or said toward her. She sometimes says something which breaks the heart, but that's my mum ^^
Whenever this happen she comes the other day with lots of food~
I love her more for knowing the real me although its natural.

I don't say you must love your parents, but at least look at the tiny things they do for you. Looking at their positive side, even if they are countable, may change your hate into love. If you can't change it then at least respect.
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Love_Hate · newbie! Joined: Apr 23, 2008 Posts: 5

I was told I had schizophrenia.
When my parents broke up. Me and my siblings lived with our mom. She met someone else. My sibling and me were young and naive and obeyed her. While she is getting the time of her life, we were left to get beating, day after day. After our brutal beating we were fingered to shut our F****** mouth. We comply we are let off. My mother threating to kill her self if we tell anyone. We were raised up to be mute all the way. Everyone around us just let us be. I have grown older now and know that I wasn't loved.
That is some of my story I had to let it out. I don't care if people insault me. Because I get it a lot and no body say any nice things to me often.

rag_gurl · Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 10:53 pm Post subject:

*Sigh* My dad passed away last year in May, and I honestly have to say that I don't know how I feel about it. It wasn't a shock because I knew it was coming, and coming fast. He had colon cancer for nearly 4 years and his body started to give up on him, and he started to give up on himself. As a child I always admired him and felt that he loved me, whenever my older sister and I get into fights, he would always yell at my sister and not me. He would favor me most of the time, but before he passed away, he said something about me that broke my heart. During this time he was on so much medication that I really did hope he was crazy, and said it because of that reason and not with his whole heart. Because of what he said, it gave me mixed feelings for his death.
My mom on the other hand, I will always love her. I've been having the craziest mood swings ever this past week and today, it was really bad. I left my badminton practice early today....rather, I stormed out of the gym because I lost a close match and decided to walk home. Before I left the gym I called my sister to pick me up, but then called her again to tell her I wanted to walk home instead because I need time to clear up my mind. My sister told my mom to not pick me up because I was mad, but she came looking for me anyways. She found me crossing the intersection and when I got inside the car I asked her why did she pick me up when my sister had told her not to. She replied by saying, "Why are you going to stay so late after school if you're only going to get mad?" This is how I know she loves, it's because she worries about me.

trueline · Pure Hope Joined: Jun 13, 2006 Posts: 5134

Of course they love me! unless I'm not their true child.

It doesn't matter weather throw me or hate me as long as their my parents then I'm happy for being legal child and that I belong to a family.

I believe no parents hate their children from their heart. Maybe some situations make them angry and they show haterd but not hate as if they want to get rid of you. If giving birth had no pain then there some posibilities that they might hate.
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Doomsought · Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 5:21 pm Post subject:

My parents are weired. I'm the typical teenage nerd.
they party. The guests can number over a hundred.
I always find it backwards and ironic, that my parents like to party more than me.
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