sex should be sacred...ryt?

Yuun · Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 1:41 am Post subject:

Well... I'm a guy and yes, I'm a bit traditional type of guys out there. I do think that Love and Sex is very close together but Sex without Love is totally absurd. I dare to say that I would not have sex until marry to the right girl and where love exist.

I know I'm playing hard to catch but what the hell... I meet with plenty of girls out there that seduce me in any ways they can but believe me... most guys won't really into this kind of girls.
Of course I would be very happy if my wife is a virgin and of course myself the same...

Girls should care for their own virginity and only give it to the ones they really love.
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Loveless · Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 2:48 am Post subject:

If sex right for you?

1)Do you want to have sex
2)Do you know who wants to have sex with you
3)Do they want to have sex with you.
4)Condom

Answer Yes to All and Sex is right for you

Kwan · Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 5:57 am Post subject:

Plengcy is right to open this topic.
The first time shouldn't be rushed at all, u gotta feel good with it.
If u rush, if u are under pressure because of the opinions of others, well, then ur first time isn't 'sacred' anymore.

It's good that some of you think of postmarital sex. It's an ideal, if u can make it, then u r satisfied, u don't feel guilty.
Although, the time has changed a bit. The majority of ppl don't think this way anymore. It isn't realizable.
But if u manage to hold it till then, congratulations, u r among the rare.

Biba is mostly right.
The first time isn't romantic, pornographic, not fun at all.
Say it in the way of the gamers: u r all noobs. Whut can noobs do? they just suck...mostly...unless u r a supernatural born talent? (i doubt it)
Well, u just gotta read Futuri Ecchi, then u'll know.

I'd say, that if u don't feel well about sex, then don't do it. It's not like this is now or never.
It's not always about the outside feelings, ur senses, but also about ur inner feelings.
It's a very rational opinion, but most of the time when the time comes, u aren't that rational anymore.

sayoku · Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 6:05 am Post subject:

lol Futuri Ecchi is funny, but it also made me paranoid lol
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CGY · Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 5:59 pm Post subject:

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Vilincica · Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 12:01 pm Post subject:

A question ( and by asking it I don`t mean to say I dissagree with things, I just want to know what you people think)

WHY should sex have meaning? What is it about sex that is so important that we need a meaning fot it so much?

Nizak · Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 12:44 pm Post subject:

Hahaha

well I'm a boy and I still have my virginty, and I'm 18 years old am I normal? Shocked

No, i'm not really ugly and I have friends like all normal kids do in school, why the hell am I still single?

Well when I was 12, I had a gf, we were dating, but it was the end of primary school that wegot together.
We both went to diffrent schools, like in Ichigo 100% Smile

We wrote letters to eachother (internet wasn't really popular yet), but I got bored and stopped sending her letters, she got pissed and heartbroken, the next time I met her, she was cold to me (hey, it's normal right?) but I could see she was actually devastated, I got remorse.
I really liked her, I mean what the hell was I thinking? I hurt her.
But it was too late to say sorry, she didn't want to talk to me since then.
Imagine the damage I could cause if I had slept with her...(though we were only 12 then) the damage ould be too great for her to bear, I would leave a scar on her forever.

I finally understood, that a relationship is about 2 persons, I was thinking too much for myself, I didn't want to do something for her and I was expecting everything would be alright.
In the end she didn't broke up with me, but I knew it was over.

Ironicly, 3 years later I changed schools and ended up with her in the same school... everytime she pass me by, she is still as cold as ice, she' has changed...all because of me, well now everytime I meet a new girl that I start to like, I always think back of my first relationship, I became aware and I held back untill I'm sure she's the right girl.
Luckly I waited, because if I had dated those girls, I would have more broken relationships on my mind.

If you're with the love of your life, you have an eternity to learn eachother, so what's the rush to have sex?
You better think twice if you have sex with someone, especially your first time, there will be only one chance to do this in your life.
So you have to beware for people that are only interested in your body or virginity.

I think I'm believing in some sort of a fairy tale, that you will meet your true love and have your first sex with her, and marry her and have a happy everafter.
I don't care what other people will say to me now, if they want to laugh at me then so be it.

Untill now I'm waiting for her, and I'll keep waiting.
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kaykay · Shogun Joined: Jul 22, 2005 Posts: 2622 Location: Cali

hey hey~! i'm a girl....17 yrs old.... and i wish sex was sacred....but i have my doubts. Most ppl just do it for pleasure.....especially concerning some of my friends.....and i've gone close to losing my virginity....but i think i'm more worried about the consequences of sex than the actual reason y i would commit myself to doing it.

i wish that i can have sex for the right reason, out of love, but i have a feeling that it will never be that way......so until i feel sure i'm doing the right thing.....i'll try to resist temptation..lol.

but really i don't care if i lose my viriginity or not......i can live without sex, unlike most guys out there..lol.
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Nizak · Posted: Sun Sep 11, 2005 1:42 pm Post subject:

Well Kay Kay I suggest you better wait till your 18...

I'll wait till i'm 20, though some close friends of mine(who are older and have experience) have suggested me that's it better to wait till i'ml 24, but I know it's almost impossible to not meet a girl I like before 24...altough I will keep my virgintiy untill i'm sure she's the one

I say 20 so the limit is easier to reach, then i move on to 22 then 24 lol ...100 noooo!!!!

Well I'm not planning to stay virgin forever, I know I'll meet her...(hopes she's a virgin too) cause it will make it more special in a way Embarassed

*sighs* I think I'm still too young for this, so I better concetrate on my studies...lol I sound like my dad Smile

But KayKay really, you better wait , and if the guy really insist to have sex with you when you don't want to, is he really worth it?
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kaykay · Shogun Joined: Jul 22, 2005 Posts: 2622 Location: Cali

lol ur absolutely right. i think when it's the right time for one to have sex..i think he/she won't feel pressured at all u know? like something will pop in ur mind and say, "this is the right person, and the right time!"

anyways....studies are coming first right now....i have no time to be concerned about some guy and his needs..lol.

t would be nice if i could lose my vrginity at the age of 21....but i'm really not planning on it.....besides the day i have sex will probably be the day i get pregnant cuz i have such bad luck...lol....so i'm really cautious..lol.
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slackermd258 · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Aug 30, 2005 Posts: 82

sex sacred??? ahahaha... no fcking way

Apl420 · Conscript Joined: Jul 15, 2005 Posts: 149 Location: S.F

Whoa! so many good arguments (however u spell it). and i've only read to pg. 2 but my eyes are tired -_-
i also agree that sex should be the thing u do with the person u love.
condom only works 90% of the time, so if u were to land on that 10% with a stranger, u think he'll take responsibility?

and good luck Nizak, its hard to find good girls these days haha.
Hint - get shy-innocent looking girl XD

kukreisis · Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 3:52 am Post subject:

Vilincica · Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 6:16 am Post subject: