Are you proud of being a Virgin?

kukreisis · Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 3:43 am Post subject:

I am proud to be a virgin xD still young (14)..sex comes when sex comes Very Happy

flyingboty · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Sep 04, 2005 Posts: 57

nah being virgin is so boring

threeyemen · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Sep 08, 2005 Posts: 54

At the time I was virgin, I'm not pround of it bec most of my close freind ain't.

Vilincica · Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 7:37 am Post subject:

I was untill I had sex Smile

just like someone else said Smile

Well I wasn`t thinking about it much if I`m honest.
The thing I don`t get is the purity thing............. I mean if I dodn`t have sex I`m pure? I don`t find anything dirty in sex (ok well rape, taking advantage, and some of the more wierd fetishes excluded here) but if you do it with someone you care about ................. no nothing dirty there. People are made in a way that screams out that they should couple................. I mean why else would we be made like two pieces of a puzzle that fits together real nicely?

I agree beeing a virgin is nothing to be ashamed about and that you should be proud of it! But when you do feel the need and you do have a person you care about to be with and that person wants to do it too .................. in such a case it is hipocrisy Smile

But I have to admit ............. after I lost my virginity I did worry about how bad was I in bed. I mean I lost it with someone I loved and I really wanted him to fell good the second, third, fourth ... time we foud ourselves in such a situation Wink

............. and if I was bad, then it wasn`t as good as it could be. At that time I wished I had done it before, so I would know what to do better ............... you know when you love someone you want the best for them ............ even in sex Smile

lexical · Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 7:47 am Post subject:

on the other hand the OTHER will be happy to know that you waited for him/her and well i am a bit cynical because i have seen so many of my friends find the PERFECT person and then break up in tears. so waitng might actually be a good thing

i appologise if i have offended anyone
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L4mE · Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2005 9:07 am Post subject:

well up till now i'm still proud to be a virgin since i havent found a gf anyway

jjang · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Sep 10, 2005 Posts: 56

i hear a lot of ppl say that they are proud to be a virgin and i think it sounds weird. i dont really understand.

somefire · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Mar 15, 2005 Posts: 59

virgin n not ashame.. but i'm surprised 2 c so many virgins arnd... i thot ppl in japan n USA r more open 2 sex... cos the media always show tt being a virgin is a shameful thing... lol... this proves tt tv n movies r wrong... lol...

CGY · Posted: Sat Sep 10, 2005 3:41 pm Post subject:

stokerino · Posted: Sat Sep 10, 2005 6:12 pm Post subject:

Proud? Nah. I don't think I give enough of a damn either way to consider myself 'proud'.
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Darkwisher · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Aug 05, 2005 Posts: 67

i m proud and disappointed:D
proud that i m a virgin, i think thats normal that young guys haven't sex in the youth^^

but also disappointed that i m a virgin, i think because i wanna sex with my gf;) the one i really love:D

anchiang · newbie! Joined: Sep 12, 2005 Posts: 46

Hoho.. yea.. baby yea....

slackermd258 · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Aug 30, 2005 Posts: 82

yeah.... im not a virgin... but when i was i wasnt proud of it, because i was just so facking horny, so i lost it the second my gf gave it up

darklilkaoz · Heimin (Commoner) Joined: Sep 13, 2005 Posts: 56

does it matter if i am a guy? cuz lots of guys want to do things... like that but i do treasure my virginity of course...

1ce · Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2005 11:43 pm Post subject:

Whats to treasure if you're a virgin?
Is there any particular reason why people like being virgin? I think being "Virgin" is a word of status and just effects the way people look at you. When you get into an older age, you don't want to be a virgin because its a shame when you're like in your 30's/40's.