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Joined: May 15, 2005 Posts: 450 Location: At my Room InFront of my PC!
Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2005 6:08 am Post subject: please help me!
need some advice concerning a girl!
U see there is this girl. She's one of the popular girls in school and i dont know what to do.
I'd like to get to know her and also, i like her to know me. She's so cute but i'm having a hard time.
i cant approach cause i feel shy and scared at the same time
any suggestions?
How could i make my first move? _________________ As the wounded man says to his assailant, if i live i will kill you! If i die You are forgiven! Such as the words of honor!
Joined: Jun 03, 2005 Posts: 2932 Location: In the land of twilight, under the moon
Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2005 7:07 am Post subject:
Hmm no good ideas but just get it over with. Don't go araound thinking to much about it use a more direct approch and just start talking to her about whatever.
Why you should just do it without thinking is simply so you won't get scared, shy or nervous yeah you might get it anyway. Look at it this way what would you regret most that you spent you time just thinking about how to get to know this person or giving it a shot and get to know her? Don't think so much, I don't know how you are as a person but if I think too much about it all I do is think about it and never do anything about it. That's why I think you should just walk up and get it over with.
Say "hi" and smile. You can really get a feel of what she thinks about you in her reaction after that. If you aren't good at sensing these things check her eyebrows, when someone sees something they like their eyebrows go up and down automatically. Anyways, just talk to her and don't make yourself look like an ass and you should be ok.
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2005 3:58 pm Post subject:
although a direct approach is cute, it doesnt always work, if a random person comes up and says "hi" it might be kind of weird. try and find out some of her interests, maybe theres a common one, if there isnt, try using one to start a conversation. ps. make sure none of her friends are around, or shell be motivated to act "cool" and blow you off, or the second you leave, theyll start to talk behind your back. _________________ CAIN is MY whore. touch him and die.
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hmmm well if u had a class with her that would help cuz then u can just start talking about the topic ur on in class and then end up talking more friendish.....but if u don't have a class w/ her, try to get a friend that knows her. u know one of those ppl that basically knows everyone at school....and just chill w/ him or her and him/her ur prob . then he/she can introduce u to her at lunch and start chilling over their w/ her popular click.
i dunno.....never been in that situation b4.....i know a lotta diff. types of ppl that range from populars to punks to goths,etc...so i can go chill w/ almost any group. try to make a more variety of friends then when u get some1 that knows ur crush u can all chill some day after school. but this type of stuff takes time, u can't rush it or else u're just going to miss ur chance.
but yea, don't go making a big deal out of it u know? like become obsessed...many of my friends have done so and well lets just say it's taking time for their hearts to mend. don't become overwhelmed w/ this dilemma when nothing has really started yet. so yea don't become engrossed in it, u still have to focus on ur priorities. _________________
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2005 7:18 pm Post subject:
If I’m in your shoe, well, I wouldn’t‘t really care about it. but anyway, just go up to her, simply say “Can we be friends”. If she says no, then, forget about it, otherwise, you got ti!
Joined: Jul 31, 2005 Posts: 9275 Location: Somewhere in CANADA
Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2005 9:34 pm Post subject:
CGY wrote:
If I’m in your shoe, well, I wouldn’t‘t really care about it. but anyway, just go up to her, simply say “Can we be friends”. If she says no, then, forget about it, otherwise, you got ti!
Dude, that was weak...
---Heres the real way you should do things.
When going around school, if you ever make any eye contact, you smile and you do a cool wave to her. Don't be tense, just be cool and laid back.
After a while, she'll notice that theres some guy that keeps waving to me, so what you can do is somehow, some way get to know some of her friends. Eventually you'll hang out with them and then she'll tag along some times. Don't be shy to talk to her. The first time you meet, tell her your name incase she doesnt know. So you should say something like this "Hey, hows it going"
If you're not comfortable with that you could start by introducing yourself like "Hey my names ...."
You could then talk about whatever you'd like, but don't make yourself look like a fool. Don't ask any nosy questions until the end.
When you're conversation is about to end, ask her if she has MSN, or AIM, or whatever chatting program you use. Thats the easiest way to know a girl.
While on MSN, AIM, or whatever, you can talk normally and act casual and get to know her pretty well. Eventually you'll become friends and when you are, you can start hanging out together. When you hand together a lot, she'll get to know you more and more, and then she'll become quite fond of you. Then when you think the moment is right, you ask them... "I was just wondering... Would you go out with me?" eh.. maybe thats a bit cheezy or crappy, but you can think of your own ways to ask.
If you have any questions or concerns, you're free to PM me - i'll get back to you ASAP.
Good luck!
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2005 9:49 pm Post subject:
what the hell? imagine your walking around school and you make eye contact with a total stranger and they wave back to you...id be like OOOOOOKAAAAAY, unless she thinks your cute before or something, i doubt shell wave back, let alone acknowldge you...
then, you continue, id be like "STALKER!" _________________ CAIN is MY whore. touch him and die.
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Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2005 10:22 pm Post subject:
yeah but if she ever finds out you were just friends with her to get to her friend, that wont be very good _________________ CAIN is MY whore. touch him and die.
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then ask one of ur friends to find out things about her ^.^ although this could somtimes backfire if u wait too long and depend on ur friend... hes gonna steal her from u xD lol
Joined: Jul 31, 2005 Posts: 9275 Location: Somewhere in CANADA
Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2005 10:32 pm Post subject:
WHAT!? Thats not how it goes. After you made friends with that person, you don't just leave them behind. You're still friends with that person, and then you never tell them that you kind of used them indirectly.
You didn't say you leave them behind but i'm just warning some people that are reading.
Joined: Jun 22, 2005 Posts: 1569 Location: wating for azumanga daioh reload...
Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2005 10:39 pm Post subject:
well, i guess it would work, but after your best friend started dating your other best friend, i guess youd feel kind of alone, even with a circle of friends, and after they break up it wont be the same _________________ CAIN is MY whore. touch him and die.
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