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ladyarakune
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call her a bit sooner after a month, you dont want her to think that youve forgotton about her. if she gave you her nmber, obviosly thers something there, dint let her forget about you though. ifshe does, shell either start dating someone else, or youll have to re-earn her trust.
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Well by not calling, I just mean by phone. You can still walk her home and talk on the internet.
---Talking on the internet is different from talking on the phone because the voice of the person you love changes the situation.
Though words are easier coming out on a screen than in voice - the voice is almost 100 times for effective. |
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| Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 9:53 pm Post subject: |
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good point, disregad my last statement 
but i think the main issue now is introducing your self, ...
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| Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 10:34 pm Post subject: |
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Sigh.. "The Man" knows the key to these questions. LOL now i'm getting too big headed.
Seriously, the introduction has different stand points. Whether you want to be introduced seriously, or laid back. Whichever one you WILL effect your overall appearance since first appearances usually tell how a person acts and so on. |
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ladyarakune
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id go for a more serious approach, if you get too cocky, she wont tale you seriously, however, a laid back approach could work too.
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| It all depends on what image you're able to support. What you want her to believe has to be what you already know. You know what i'm saying? |
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| Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 10:51 pm Post subject: |
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| Love problems huh... can't say I ever have any problems there, but if you really want anything to change at all, then ask her out<be forward and confident about it> that way she'll at least know who you are... |
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If she doesn't know you well, the answer would be "NO" unless you're one of the hottest guys in school.
In order to ask a girl out, you must first: Gain her trust and reliability.
Skipping steps will get you nowhere. So Haighs, don't be so hasty  |
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ladyarakune
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| Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 11:00 pm Post subject: |
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i think i get what your saying,
but i guess it doesnt matter as long as youre confident in yourself
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| Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 11:09 pm Post subject: |
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Being confident takes care of only 2 things here:
1. Confidence to hang out with her
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2. Confidence to ask her out.
Sure you can do this, but then you have to be sure she likes you.
If you don't know if she likes you - you'd have to be man enough to take "No" as an answer. Then you'd be heart broken.
'Good going after that!' *sarcastic* |
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ladyarakune
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| Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 11:12 pm Post subject: |
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but the only other choices are
1 faking your personality
2 showing her your true self
what if you arent like "the man"?
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Haighs
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| Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 11:17 pm Post subject: |
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| 1ce wrote: |
If she doesn't know you well, the answer would be "NO" unless you're one of the hottest guys in school.
In order to ask a girl out, you must first: Gain her trust and reliability.
Skipping steps will get you nowhere. So Haighs, don't be so hasty |
Skipping steps, what are you talking about, you just has to ask her out, there is no science involve with that unless he want to use the "steps" on a two year plan confession which by that time she'll be already taken... the guy just needs to let himself known and probably be somewhat romantic<two dozens of red roses wouldn't hurt> |
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Number 1 - You'll get screwed over because she'll see somethings wrong and you won't get jack squat. You shouldn't have chosen this option in the first place.
Number 2 - Play your cards properly and you'll get the jackpot. She doesn't even have to have the same interests as you.
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| what if you arent like "the man"? |
What do you mean by that?
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| Haighs wrote: |
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If she doesn't know you well, the answer would be "NO" unless you're one of the hottest guys in school.
In order to ask a girl out, you must first: Gain her trust and reliability.
Skipping steps will get you nowhere. So Haighs, don't be so hasty |
Skipping steps, what are you talking about, you just has to ask her out, there is no science involve with that unless he want to use the "steps" on a two year plan confession which by that time she'll be already taken... the guy just needs to let himself known and probably be somewhat romantic<two dozens of red roses wouldn't hurt> |
WWWWRONG...
What are you thinking? A girl doesn't go out with a stranger just like that! Haven't you had experiences in reality!? If you get the trust from the girl and have things going for you, she wouldn't think about getting another guy. |
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ladyarakune
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| Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 11:51 pm Post subject: |
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1. i mean what if your a dork who doesnt have much dating experience
2. two, roses are really sweet
but dont be too straightforward or it will be awkward
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